Doesn't this mean something?

Question

Me and my ex boyfriend are going through a lot of drama lately since we were so close and he suddenly left me. I recently found out it was because he thinks my parents hate him and for that reason we can't work out. First of all, my parents do not hate him, but he won't believe my no matter how many times I tell him. Also, we're too young for those things to matter [we're just in high school] and I don't see why my parents opinons matter especially at this age.

He wants me to move on and forget him but I think he's being way too dramatic, and I know he will regret this later. I know him too well and we were too close for him to just give up on us like this. He can't just run away when the going gets rough.

Whenever I'm cloes to giving up I get this gut feeling that I need to keep going. This feeling wont go away and is sucha huge feeling I think it has to mean something. What do you think ? =/

I've also been in his place before with other relationships I've had and I know how he feels. But I regretted it later, and it wasn't close to being as serious as me and him were.

He also tells me he still loves me and wants to be with me but can't. Since I found out the thing with my parents, things make a lot more sense.

Answer 1

Go with your gut feeling - it never is wrong. Maybe there is more to his story anyway.

Answer 2

Well maybe he is changing or discovering himself. Perhaps the vision of himself and how you complemented him has changed and now he is seeing himself in a differerent way and maybe you don't fit in the picture. That's not bad, it's just life.

This is normal for everyone, and as we grow up and experience new things in life, we also learn about ourselves. You will also discover new things about yourself and you may find that your attracted to different types of guys. You will learn something new about yourself from each guy you date.

I've was in love when I was young and so I understand that deep feeling in your chest that makes you not give up. It gives you that ray of hope and that if you just talk about things then everything will get better. The problem is though, that he is making it hard for you to get to that point. Seems like he is putting up a wall and that in itself say's alot. I think that he may have just lost interest and is using your parents as a reason to keep things broken off.

Please don't be heart broken because it will get better. I had a girlfriend when I was a senior and it lasted three years. She feel out of love and I was completely devistated. I couldn't understand how things fell apart the way that they did, well not until years later. I was in a relationship and I was the one who fell out of love and then I understood what my ex went through. Life is all relative and the more you experience life, the more you learn about yourself.

I'm sorry your hurting, but just know that it will get better and when you get over him, you will be stronger for it.

Be strong...