Family & Relationships - 17 October 2006

I am fed up with my abusive husband(mainly verbal and mental but has been physical years ago). Even though I'm scared *** hell I am planning to divorce him as soon as I can. My kids and I will move in with my mom until I feel ready to have a place of my own. My problem is that we haven't had sex in about a month and he is getting tired of my excuses. To make it even worse I really want to have sex because I need it too and I don't want to cheat. I think that if we have sex he will go back to thinking that I'm ok and that I want to stay with him and put up with his bullshit. I sometimes find it hard to separate my emotions from sex. I don't want to fall into the trap of thinking things could be better because the sex is really the only good thing between us. I think that is why we are still together to this day. I wonder if it's wrong to have sex with him while I'm here even though I'm going to leave him?

2006-10-17 17:11:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have had a friend since we were teens, we are now in our 30's, he, his girlfriend and me and my husband have been friends for 14 years.Now they are telling people bad things about me and don't want to hang out. I haven't changed from what I can tell. Now my husband says it is all my fault because they don't like me.they have done this to other friends of theirs before, it's like they always want something new, the grass is always greener thing. We have other friends, I'm not lonely and my husband doesn't have time for people anyway. What are some thoughts as to what could be going on?It seems like such a long friendship to throw away.I am trying not to beat myself up over them because I know they have done it before, but it does hurt. We helped them out a lot over the years. They say I make them feel stupid, how do you MAKE someone feel stupid? could it be they have low self esteem and want low life friends to make them feel better about themselves?

2006-10-17 17:10:54 · 12 answers · asked by mati 3 in Friends

My ex bf and I brokeup b/c I cheated on him. And he hooked back up with his ex gf and on that same day he gave me a look like I love her but not as much as I loved u. And then he saw me dancing with my best friend and he looked at us with a sad look. And then his ex gf brokeup with him b/c she doesn't like him in that way. And he claims he is really in love with her. What does this mean?

2006-10-17 17:10:12 · 9 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

so i asked my friend out back in january and she said no. however we have grown close since then. i wanna kiss her. how do i go about doing this? like we always hug goodbye. how do i transition that hug into a kiss on the lips?

2006-10-17 17:09:48 · 24 answers · asked by john s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 17:09:41 · 16 answers · asked by nunya 3 in Family

I know some parents who have 4 children and can't barely take care of themselves. they making minimin wage or maybe just a bit more and have so many children. what are they thinking?

2006-10-17 17:08:52 · 10 answers · asked by GirlyWorld 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

surprise a woman with lingerie (assuming you know what she will really like) or to go buy it with her?

Both seem to have advantages, but I prefer shopping for it with her. Creates some anticipation.

2006-10-17 17:08:23 · 23 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

Gals will adjust their hair or try to play with their handphone or do something when guys noticing them. Why?

2006-10-17 17:07:55 · 15 answers · asked by Mrjjvin 2 in Singles & Dating

or a woman who is really smart but not really attractive who would you give a second look to?? and why??

2006-10-17 17:07:42 · 11 answers · asked by shasha 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 17:05:48 · 12 answers · asked by someoneyouknow 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-17 17:05:46 · 15 answers · asked by Meditator 2 in Family

okay well we have been together for 4 months and we love each other nad he treats me and my family like crap but i still REALLY love him!!!!! help!

2006-10-17 17:05:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

people keep telling you i love you but you have done nothing to make them do so other than be a kind caring person why do people mistake this for love and what can be done about it please help as dont want to hurt others feelings

2006-10-17 17:05:04 · 11 answers · asked by curious and want to help 2 in Weddings

On Windows Media Player at least 1/4 of our songs are repetes. and we have almost 100 hours of music on there. My brothers don't go and look for a song they want they just add it again...WHY?!?! its not that hard to go and find it.

2006-10-17 17:04:40 · 1 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Family

.....How often is it in genuine interest, and how often is it a diplomatic blow-off?
It seems like a woman is more likely to call you "sweet" when she is not interested in you, but wants to say *something* in appreciation of how nice you are to her.

(btw: Just got told today, "You're really sweet. I should hang out with you more often." The second part is anomalous as all hell, but her use of "sweet" still makes me doubt the sincerity of the second part.)

2006-10-17 17:03:02 · 22 answers · asked by A Box of Signs 4 in Singles & Dating

why? like for instance they never date their own race, because they're so ashamed of their own race so much they have to date only white guys for self-esteem, and false pride.
shame on them! shame on them!

2006-10-17 17:02:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

describe urself in one word..

2006-10-17 17:01:27 · 25 answers · asked by ok 4 in Friends

Help!! Our boy sneaks into our bed late at night when we are sleeping. Most of the time we don't even know he is there until the alarm goes off in the morning. He will be 3 in January and we've talked to him about it but it is like he is on auto pilot when he wakes in the night. Short of duct taping him to his bed, how can we break him of this?

2006-10-17 17:00:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what does a guy mean when shes still a little girl? Is he interested in her or not?

2006-10-17 17:00:08 · 12 answers · asked by Caitlynn L 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't have any friends, I am very shy. What can I do to get more friends? I have one friend but he doenst really like me, he only hangs out with me when no one else is around. I like pizza.

2006-10-17 16:59:24 · 5 answers · asked by mutants unite 1 in Friends

i think my friend has a crush on me

other people say shes always touching me

but i see that she touches all the guys

so shes very touchy

what would some signs be of me being special to her that she would show

2006-10-17 16:58:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 16:57:22 · 22 answers · asked by Meditator 2 in Friends

If so, what do you like about me? If not, what would you change? I look almost exactly like my avatar. My hair is a slightly lighter brown but they don't have that color to choose on the avatar page.

2006-10-17 16:56:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well we just got done playing our arch rival for football and we lost a heartbreaker in the last 3 minutes. After the game i had tears in my eyes and a lot of the girls in my grade and others saw this. is this bad if i was seen crying in front of them?

2006-10-17 16:56:29 · 24 answers · asked by gopackgo51 1 in Singles & Dating

or a well lit room with your last 3 ex's?

2006-10-17 16:56:04 · 9 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl from my school but I dont know if she likes me back, even though we talk to one another, and she has asked me if I wanted to go to the mall with her this weekend and hang-out? please help me, does she like me I'm confused!!!

2006-10-17 16:55:29 · 15 answers · asked by Steven Z 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I've been dating this person for a little minute. I've now come to realize that I need space and time to work on myself. My partner aggres with me and told me to handle whats most important, but after a week I find myself calling him every other day. We saw each other last nite for the first time in like two weeks, and he kept making comments like "oh you dont do me anymore". He also said that he wants to call me but he doesnt because I said I need my space. Is it wrong for me to get mad that he calls once every two days? Is he really respecting my decision or is he moving on?

2006-10-17 16:55:24 · 8 answers · asked by Ultimate Diva 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating this guy for a year. The first 8 months were great. NO RED FLAGS. By the 9th month the relationship started getting weird. Without any arguments or fights, he would disappear and when I contacted him he would threaten to call the authorities on me. I never even knew what I did or why we fighting. Then a few weeks later he would come back saying, "I'm sorry, I had a lot of stress." 4 weeks ago, I was in the hospital for surgery and he was and actually had been very supportive of me for those weeks. As I got better I thought we were good again. A week after I got better he called me and said his father had a stoke and he would call me back after he went to see about him. He never called and now 3 weeks later I'm sending him emails saying "what is going on with you?" I got an text back today saying that if I contacted him again he would call the authorities for harrassment. I'm shock! I didn't even know we broke up? He last text to me was "I luv u". What happend?

2006-10-17 16:55:21 · 10 answers · asked by Spleakie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What is acceptable and what is not? I live in an apartment complex and there are no nudist clubs or resorts anywhere near here. I'm thinking unless I travel that I am stuck to home nudism. I could lay out on my porch or maybe go to the laundrymat but I'm thinking that would be pushing it. Has anyone ever dated a nudist on here? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. Also, I didn't know where to post this so If I goofed i'm sorry.

2006-10-17 16:55:19 · 5 answers · asked by Cindy C 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-17 16:53:58 · 11 answers · asked by elpackage 2 in Marriage & Divorce