or a woman who is really smart but not really attractive who would you give a second look to?? and why??
2006-10-17 17:07:42 · 11 answers · asked by shasha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Both. But I would probably look to just hook up with the hot girl while I would try to get to know smart girl. Sex is great, but a relationship takes at least a little stimulating conversation.
2006-10-17 17:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you that the pretty ones always get the first looks....the guys the fastest, etc. But if they don't have common sense and a personality, it won't last long and the guys will always end up with the ones that make them laugh and have a head on their shoulders! I've Seen it happen too many times!
That's why some men are off and on to so many different "beautiful" women all the time...those guys only see the beauty that is skin deep and they grow into lonely old men because they don't look for the things that keep a relationship together.
I'm not saying that beautiful women can't be smart and have a great personality,...they're lots of them. I'm just saying you can't go by looks alone to be happy with a person.
2006-10-17 17:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by sugarbud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Despite what movies like Shallow Hal tell you it takes a modicum of physical attraction to have a healthy romantic relationship. If not why not just be friends. There is nothing wrong with being really good friends.
You need to ask yourself what is the nature of having a relationship. In part it is about family and sex. Without attraction it makes both somewhat problematic and will eventually surface which will cause needless suffering when it does.
With that said attraction can grow to some degree depending on how much you like the person. As a vast general it is better to be with someone you share a connection with. Intelligence is not the only possible measure of connection.
2006-10-17 17:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by Love of Truth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think personality is generally more important than smarts... as long as she can put a sentence together. I've met some not so intelligent women that have a heart of gold. I also believe someone can become more attractive, even physically, when you fall in love with the person.
2006-10-17 17:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smarter is more important. The strong, calm, collective type. Of course I would need to be physically attracted to her also. I would say a cute smart woman, as opposed to a dumb sexy woman.
2006-10-17 17:12:07 · answer #5 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd probably look twice at the pretty one but I know I'd be much happier with someone who could match or even beat me intellectually.
Beauty to me isn't measured on just the inside, and if that's all someone looks for their obviously a pretty shallow person.
Smarter people are more cool!
2006-10-17 17:34:33 · answer #6 · answered by Bad Example 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but I would go for the woman who stimulates my mind. I believe that mental stimulation is the best way to the heart. I dont want to be stuck with someone that I cant relate to.
2006-10-17 17:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really don't know? An attractive woman nearly always has the advantage.
2006-10-17 17:10:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
beauty is only temporary, but inteligence and a good personality last forever.
2006-10-17 17:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by Jesus 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go out and create "who" and "what" you want to be...the rest will come.
2006-10-17 17:10:38 · answer #10 · answered by MicG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋