so i asked my friend out back in january and she said no. however we have grown close since then. i wanna kiss her. how do i go about doing this? like we always hug goodbye. how do i transition that hug into a kiss on the lips?
2006-10-17 17:09:48 · 24 answers · asked by john s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-17 17:11:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 4⤋
Just give her a little surprise kiss softly on the lips! A quick kind of a kiss! Then say to her that you have been wanting a kiss from her for a long time! Don't ask a girl that you like to go out back with you!
2006-10-17 17:15:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go slow man dont rush, Rushing things along can lead to a train wreck. get bold but dont dive in head first. when you hug her just start off with a simple peck on the cheeck after the hug. and see how she responds. if she responds well keep it up and SLOWLY get bolder. it all depends on what ype of girl she is as well. if she likes bold then go for the lips (and not the ones between her legs) but make sure your 100% sure about this be4 you proceded. and if your going to kiss her kiss her with some confidence dont act scared, i dont know what it is but women can sense this. be4 you hug her look into her Eyes and try and read her mind. also look for hints sometimes women leave hints. my wife was the same way, and ive been married for 9 years, and she still does it. All in All if shes not the bold type go slow, moving too fast will push her away and youll remain nothing but close friends.
2006-10-17 17:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mathias K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is difficult to answer.......how have you grown close? Do you hold hands when you walk together? Does she allow you to put your arm around her? If yes, then she may be willing to let you kiss her.....if no, then she may not be quite comfortable letting anyone (not just you) into her space......yet.
Here is what i suggest, and it is going to take courage and patience on your part: when you are out together, talking, walking, whatever.......take a deep breath and just ask her......tell her the feelings you have for her, and that you would like to kiss her, but you want her permission. I know, I know, you are saying forget that! But if you really care about this girl, you will let her tell you when you can part with a hug AND a kiss.
2006-10-17 17:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by Pattycake2u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would start with a kiss on the cheek one night, get her reaction to that, if she doesnt seem to mind then the next time or two softly kiss her lips and dont make it a sexual one just a simple hug and kiss. if she seems to be diggin it then you know your safe if not just appologize and tell her you just really wanted to kiss her because she looked really pretty that night and is special and means alot to you as a friend or more just make sure you do it confidenitly.
2006-10-17 17:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by fani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your faces are close during those hugs....so, instead of pulling away after the hug, look into her eyes, slowly lean in and kiss her softly. What girl wouldn't like that.
2006-10-17 17:12:47 · answer #6 · answered by Workin' Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it.when u give her a hug just kiss her afterwords befor she pulls away.if she doesnt pull away right after u kiss her then give her another hug and let her kno how much u care about her.ull kno if she wants u or not if she doesnt yank away from u.sometimes u cant wait for things.u just have to go for what u want and if u want her that will let her kno.good luck and hope it works out
2006-10-17 17:20:32 · answer #7 · answered by babygirl_12589 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try slowing pulling away from that hug, and staring into her eyes, then look to her lips and see how she reacts. If she moves closer to you, you know she wants it, it she starts to pull away, you probably shouldn't go in for the kiss.
2006-10-17 17:12:29 · answer #8 · answered by jashaunte 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try to catch her eyes and give her your sweetest smile, then come near to her and hold her face slowly. Kiss her tenderly at her lips. As your lips feel her lips, close your eyes and observe her what her reactions. Do not open wide your mouth in kissing her lips just half and tenderly, wait for her to open her mouth for you. Don't pressure her to open her mouth wide just wait as she adjust for her moves, while your hands move tenderly feel her back down to her waist.
2006-10-17 17:22:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can wish all you want or you can have just by taken a chance the next time you hug good bye just close your eyes and hope you feel a kiis back... beside from what you said ...( yous got close ) well she could want you to kiss her
2006-10-17 17:14:52 · answer #10 · answered by dogfaceboy626 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you hug her, move your head less to the side and more toward her face, then put your lips on hers and softly caress them with yours.....then see what happens from there!
2006-10-17 17:12:41 · answer #11 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋