Well we just got done playing our arch rival for football and we lost a heartbreaker in the last 3 minutes. After the game i had tears in my eyes and a lot of the girls in my grade and others saw this. is this bad if i was seen crying in front of them?
2006-10-17 16:56:29 · 24 answers · asked by gopackgo51 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's O.k.. for a guy to cry, it shows you have feelings. BUT, it depends on why you're crying. A football game? I don't know about that.
2006-10-17 16:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by 7yrs2go 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Real men can cry in front of people. It actually makes you more attractive. Anybody who says it was bad should have stayed living in the 50's.
2006-10-17 17:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by freedove06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to cry, even for guys. I do however find it odd that you would cry over something as unimportant as a football game.
2006-10-17 17:10:11 · answer #3 · answered by X M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the girls saying they like it will dump you in a second
for a guy who doesn't cry and beats them. It's a fact of life.
2006-10-17 17:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by PoohP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely it isn't bad. Means you cared very much about losing game. Totally understandable. I'd rather have a friend like you than someone who was cold as ice.
2006-10-17 17:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, don't ever be concerned about other people seeing you cry....this was a heartfelt, emotionally charged time for you, and if they don't see that, who cares.
You are a sensitive, caring person, this world needs more people like you!
2006-10-17 17:03:31 · answer #6 · answered by Pattycake2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! Plenty of boys cry when they lose big games that mean a lot to them. You shouldn't be ashamed. It just shows your softer side.
2006-10-17 16:58:43 · answer #7 · answered by Melinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if they like a sensitive guy but thats okay if you are a jock they know how much u care about football and they will understand sure they might tell their friends and gossip but it will all die down if they did bye hope it helps
2006-10-17 17:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No grls want 2 c some sensitivity once in a while :)
2006-10-17 16:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by identity dreamer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not that you were crying in front of them but it is bad that a foot ball loss caused you to cry.
2006-10-17 16:59:02 · answer #10 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋