My husband has a history of alcohol abuse as well as lying, stealing and "stepping out of the marriage." According to him he has never had sex with anyone else but "might" have kissed someone else. Now he is just over 3 months sober and insists he is changing his ways. He also insists that I need to give him another chance (after 12 years of chances!) I however, don't believe a word out of his mouth, am not in love with him anymore, am not attracted to him anymore, don't trust him, etc. I gave him more chances than he deserves, offered to let him come clean and start over with no repercussions, work with him in therapy etc. He would always be good for a short while and then slip back to his old ways. The difference this time is that he is sober. Can someone really change that much? I feel that he is only working on it this time because he realized that I was dead serious about leaving his sorry ***!
2006-10-17
16:46:07
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COLLEEN F
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Marriage & Divorce