Lives alone and is not just a phase she is going through. Choice, not a refugee from marriage or a relationship.
Prefers to get her sex on a casual basis from (non-paying) male visitors, but throws them out when she gets bored (or they get too heavy: falling asleep etc.)
2006-10-17 16:52:54 · 12 answers · asked by Perseus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well....... yea some of us r like that because we r afraid to get hurt so we dont have real relation ships we get it and get gone we dont want people to no that sometimes need so we hide underneith and some people never come out of it
2006-10-17 16:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course!!! Not all of us need a man to complete us. When i met my current partner it was actually the last thing i wanted. I had been single for four years, and thoroughly enjoyed it, lived alone, had a job, car etc, etc. Had short term men and casual sex when i wanted and on my terms and had the best life. I fell in love and wouldn't change what i have now for the world, but it doesn't mean that all the time i was single i was desperately seeking a man to complete me.
2006-10-17 17:50:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes...i was like that before i met my (now ex) i had my own place, own job, own car, completely independent, paid my own bills, took care of myself and was happy that way, i got casual (protected) sex when i felt the need...was not looking for anything serious...we all have our needs...did not want a man on a permanent basis, just some harmless fun,and i made it clear that this was just casual and was not looking for a full time partner... did not want anyone there when i woke up of a morning....sounds selfish but i liked it that way...then i met someone, 10 years later i am single again, (my choice).... i s'pose i can just go back to being me again i think...no complications, no hassle, no ties, i have my Independence back and i am not loaded with anyone else's emotional baggage.....i am happy with myself and prefer to just be on my own.....maybe in the future if the (right) one comes along (again) i may settle, but right now i am having some ME time, i have opportunities ahead of me and i don't have time for a full on relationship i have good friends who i can see at any time, i never get lonely, and i am content
2006-10-17 17:13:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I flat shared for many years, liked making my own choices, being responsible for myself, no hassles of a partner. had the odd partner but always got bored and got shot of them. Was quite happy like this, didn't need anyone to make me whole. All changed when I met my partner but for a few years we didn't live together, and even now after 6 years we still have separate finances. I think all people have times in their life when they want to be alone, and times when they want companionship.
2006-10-17 17:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by properdivers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a female with stereotypical male characteristics. I say that because you often hear of men being like that but not women usually. I've heard of it and it is possible. It just isn't very common. I would think it is a phase though. I've never heard of a woman staying like that her whole life.
2006-10-17 16:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by acvader 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell Yeah, im one of them! Im an independent woman, health care professional, and i dont need a man for his money, because i make plenty of my own!!
I dont actually have casual sex too often, because my work occupies most of my time. But just like any-other woman, i sometimes need the comfort of a man. . .
2006-10-17 17:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by Me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i am sure that there is, why not, its her choice. Some women love living alone, being independent, its a good way to live. cheers good luck.
2006-10-17 19:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by donua1022 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes there is and I know some. They have also solicited me for sex. As women age they become more aggressive and competitive for men it is quite interesting!
2006-10-17 17:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by roscodog 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try the chang of life rage time is not to bad
2006-10-17 16:56:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did someone tell u that. what do u think?
probably just an excuse but she could
one in a million.
2006-10-17 16:56:21 · answer #10 · answered by canuckclint 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋