I really like my best guy friend but i don't think he likes me. He's always telling me that someone is prolly thinking about me but he just doesn't understand that i like him. Plus he's always asking me advice on other girls when all i want to do is tell him that it's not my place to help him when i think he should like me. He said he liked me before but just doesn't want to ruin the friendship. Why can't he just give me a chance if i'm supposedly the only one that cares about him?
2006-10-17 16:43:03 · 8 answers · asked by confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just come right out and tell him and get it over with.
2006-10-17 16:45:32 · answer #1 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there r 2 possibilities. First; he likes u and use other people as a way to get his message across to u. Second: he didnot like u; rather using u to reach the right person. U r precious, be gentle on urslf and go with the flow; by that I also mean do not waste urslf if he is not the right person.
The first thing I recommend is to figure out, to which category u belong. Bcx if u r wrong then ..........noone likes to be a looser, specially grls. Also see his reaction by being with someone else in front of him. Donot rush!
Ask him to go out with u, may be jst to buy a book/card or anything....and there if u feel something "different" or caring in him, u will know by then what to do next. Good Luck!
2006-10-17 17:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to get the greatest reward, you have to take a great risk. Are you willing to risk the friendship? Are you willing to risk never speaking to him again? Are you willing to risk hurting him and yourself? If you can answer no to any of these questions then my advice is to stay friends. If you can answer yes to any of these questions then go for it and give love a chance.......either way something amazing will happen and I will have changed another life, which is what I'm best at...............
2006-10-17 16:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U tell him. If he is your bff he will understand. My bff told me he liked me in gr.5 and I think he still does at least thats what everyone of my friends tell me. He says "Steph if u liked me that would be pritty awkward".
2006-10-17 16:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you talk,well tell them what is so hard about that,I don't get it.
2006-10-17 16:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he is scared to lose u as a friend
2006-10-17 16:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by danielle! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it to him.
2006-10-17 16:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like you
2006-10-17 16:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋