The guy I luv w/ all my heart broke up w/me & all i do is think bout him. Then my friend started doing drugs and I told her mom. But I was just doing it cause I care bout her alot. Now everybody in school hates me cause I did that! ALL I was doing was helping! I dont know what to do I feel really bad 4 everything thats happening!?
2006-10-17 16:45:44 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I think you did the right thing! That was really brave of you to tell your friends mom about her doing drugs, Your still in high school, and you didn't think what people would say or how they would feel about you, Because you did it only because you ARE a good friend, and your concern was for her. As for your boyfriend, believe me, you will meet somebody much better and won't remember this one. Stay strong, this will blow over. Good luck.
2006-10-17 16:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by Kathy C 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First...you did the right thing when you told your friends mom about the drugs. You were being a true friend and someday she will thank you for it...it may take a while though. Sometimes being a true friend is hard.
Forget the guy. Your young and you will fall in love again. He will always be in your memories but now you have to learn how to move on and that life isn't lived for a guy.
As far as school...well, your problems will be forgotten when the next drama happens which should be in a day or two if your school is typical.
Hang in there...we all have bad days, or weeks. It will get better. Talk to your mom...that's what we are here for.
2006-10-17 16:51:42 · answer #2 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are the best friend that anyone could ask for. That took alot of courage and shows that you actually like a care about your friends. Is she doesnt understand that then she doesnt deserve your friendship. Hopefully she will turn around soon and thank you. If she doesnt then screw her let her ruin her life and one day trust me she will regret it and think back to what you did and want to thank you. If people at school are mad at you then dont talk to those losers either. You did the right thing and remember you dont have to even explain to anyone why you did it. The people should have common sense enough to know that you saved her. I had almost the same thing happen to me and it all turned out fine. She eventually apoligized. But I am sure your friends mother is grateful and is telling her daugther that you did nothing wrong. Dont worry and everything will work out for you, give it some time and dont let other people bother you :-) As for the boyfriend you will always find someone better and you are young so def dont worry about him
2006-10-17 16:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by Glittergirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well wow it sounds like we have alot in common, i had a friend i lost to drugs and i was hated because i did not want anything to do with them, and i also just got out of a very long relatioship, but here is my best addvice and very simple, u must walk on, not easy, but take it for it is and learn from it, its those ppl who get out of fixed patterns that make a diffrence, so basically just say **** them i dont need them. i lost alot of my friends, but i am living off the desire to make myself the best humanily possible and to tell you the truth u did everything right and you deserve a pat on the back. and as for the guy, yes it sucks, but love is never lost and if u two were ment then he will be back, but also look at this as an oppurtunity to get out in the world, your doing the right thing and dont let ppl take you into those fixed patterns, cause once ur in there is no going back, and forget about yesterday and forget about tomarrow and today those will just be another day but look onto your future because the future is forever
2006-10-17 16:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by Corey132 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing. the mother needed to know what was going on with her daughter. and your friend could have got hurt or killed by the drugs. And that is the most thoughtful thing a friend could do and if she does not understand that then she doesn't deserve you as a friend. So if you think you did the right thing that's all that matters and you probably saved your friends life. and i know how you feel with the whole breaking up thing a guy broke up with me and i cant get him out of my head!
2006-10-17 16:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by JAJ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off if a guy broke your heart he doesn't deserve your time. Second off, everyone may hate you at school but in the long run you saved someones life. Do not feel bad because you did the right thing. It's not about what people think. It's about doing what you feel is right. And if they don't like you because of that then forget them.
2006-10-17 16:49:22 · answer #6 · answered by Mistress Karina 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't be down on yourself! As for your boyfriend, there are plenty of fish in the sea. I know...everyone says that, but it's true! As my Grandma used to say, in due time this shall also pass...and you know what...it does. You never know, things may work out with you and your boyfriend. Right now you need to put all your thoughts into your friend. You did the right thing. Even though you feel terrible, but you saved her life. Hopefully, down the road she will see what you did and thank you for it. I had the same thing happen with my best friend and it took many years (14 to be exact), but I finally got a thank you from her. Just hang in there, I know it's hard, but you seem like a strong person!! Good luck to you and your friend.
2006-10-17 16:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by pinkie_me76 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
life is a damn struggle... you win some you lose many...I on the other hand am proud that you felt like saying something to her mom. It takes a load of guts to do what you did. You need reassurance, and hopefully you'll get it. And the reason you're feeling bad is cause you actually have feelings and a conscience. You go you person you! Keep rockin with your head held high! Well, maybe not that high...lol
2006-10-17 16:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by clover_t21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to think that everything happens for a reason. i know it can be difficult at times, but things are meant to go a certain way. You did the right thing by telling you friends mom, you should be proud of yourself. Hopefully someday your friend will thank you for it. As far as the b/f goes.... If he broke up with you he obviously didn't care about you as much as you did for him. You should be happy you didn't waste any more time in a relationship where you love was not appreciated and returned.
2006-10-17 16:50:15 · answer #9 · answered by skip_2015 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for the guy: he left you, and that was maybe the worst mistake of his life......dont let it pull you down to far.....
for your friend: i think that telling your friend's mom was a really good thing to do. i dont know if i could have done it...... you showed that you really cared about your friend. besides which part the the school hates you? the side that doesnt believe in doing drugs? or the half that thinks that doing drugs in a good thing? not matter what people say you did a really good thing for her whether the school knows it or not!
2006-10-17 16:49:43 · answer #10 · answered by Marsha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋