My ex bf and I brokeup b/c u guessed it I cheated. And I appologized 20times then he said u need more appologies than that. Then a few weeks ago he got back 2gether with his ex Sara and that same day he looked at me like I love her but not as much as I loved u. Then I was dancing with my best friend Chris and my ex bf looked at him and I with a sad look. He dumped me. And he still won't talk 2 me its been 3months. And his ex gf Sara dumped him b/c she doesn't like him in that way. And she said she would probably cheat on him if they got back 2gether and she promised me she wouldn't go back out with him.
2006-10-17 16:44:24 · 16 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends what you mean when you say you cheated. Did you went on a date with another guy or did you just hook up?
If you didn't have any feelings for that other persons, you should let your ex-boyfriend knows that. And he also needs to know why? Maybe you had a fight and you cheated on him because you were sad.
The last thing you need to know is if he was really in love with you. If he was truly in love, he would have given you a second chance.
I know it's not easy but you are gonna have to move on.
Hope you'll be good.
2006-10-17 16:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by Nick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wasn't this the plot on Days of Our Lives today?
Listen. If he takes you back, all he'd ever do is bring up that you cheated on him every time you got in any argument, even if you're RIGHT. If he doesn't take you back, learn something (a little humility might not hurt) and remember the pain you've gone through so you never do it to someone else you care about again. Soryy it sounds harsh, but I think if you consider it, you'll see I am right. Anyone agree???
2006-10-17 16:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've cheated on someone, you will never be trusted 100% by that person ever again. It's a trust as fragile as a vase: Once broken, you can put it back together, but the glue marks will always be a reminder of the damage that was done.
2006-10-17 16:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by EJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a guy,but my answer is once a cheat always a cheat.If you have so little respect for someone to sleep with another person why would you stop after once?i'm sure you think you would and who knows maybe you really would but remember your relationship will always have trust issues and paybacks a *****
2006-10-17 16:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by chaosnks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. And I'm guessing you're about 14 or 15. So none this matters anyway. Remind yourself that you're young and get over it.
2006-10-17 16:48:02 · answer #5 · answered by air_of_truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheat always a cheat,and a cheat will lie,cheating is one of the lowest things that can be done to someone,what gos around comes around.
2006-10-17 16:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,you've ruin it between the two of you and you may as well back it up and move on.He'll never be able to trust you again.
2006-10-17 16:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. If I wanted to share my girlfriend with the whole world I'd pimp her out myself.
2006-10-17 16:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bend over girl, you need a spanking.
Their is no forgiving a cheater.
2006-10-17 16:47:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talk to him but don't act desperate and next time be faithful.
2006-10-17 16:46:27 · answer #10 · answered by canuckclint 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋