Family & Relationships - 17 October 2006

if your b/f lies about little things that dont even matter and then you tell him he's lieing and he deny's it?? what can you do?? i wanna try something with words first because i dont wanna let go not yet there is too much good in the relationship to just let it go...

2006-10-17 16:27:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

January 6th, 2007 will be 2 years. But it still feels like yesterday. I wasn't with her when she died, and wasn't able to be at the funeral. What do I do? How do I grieve? Also, my dad just remarried last month. How the heck do I deal with that? (I'm 23, female)

2006-10-17 16:27:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How do you want guys hair down there to be? all natural, trimmed? how so?
How would you feel if a guy had a landing strip down there? Bald eagle??
And how do u keep it down there?? And does it change? and why?

2006-10-17 16:26:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 16:26:32 · 7 answers · asked by rasckal 3 in Singles & Dating

it is the relationship water we are raised to swim in - rather obliviously and unquestioningly ...is it not is an old model we inherited from earlier generations for the survival of family and housholds and tribes?

Will it continue as the model for us? Is it still relevant?

2006-10-17 16:26:21 · 5 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 16:25:31 · 3 answers · asked by elpackage 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-17 16:24:49 · 15 answers · asked by rasckal 3 in Singles & Dating

Am I insane?
Yes, I have a stalker,
Kinda wierd when the shoe's on the other foot.

2006-10-17 16:23:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Oops!I didnt know that this question has arisen many times...so this has been experienced by many people...I want to know how and why it happens how can your heart ache for the person you hate, who claims that he loves you..but does not understand you...and does not hesitate to hit you in anger...
Is it love...Infatuation ..obsession..what?????

2006-10-17 16:23:17 · 16 answers · asked by suhani 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I was not dating anyone and then I started hanging out with this guy who had a girlfriend well he cheated on her with me and now him and I are "openly" dating which is like the advanced friends with benefits, well he seems to be liking me a little bit more then friends with benefits ( I do know this because he told me) So what should I do just keep fooling around and not talk to him about it or should I ask him what he wants and if he says a relationship then I should break up with him?

2006-10-17 16:23:02 · 3 answers · asked by thelsntheatreowns 1 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if your boyfriend told you he liked wearing girls panties? Would you give him some?
What would you do if he didn't tell you and just surprised you one day when you are about to have sex?

What if you were about to hook up with a random guy and he strips off his pants and he is wearing panties?
What if this random hook up asked to have your panties after you had sex, what would you do?

I know this is a lot to answer... but any help is appreciated.

2006-10-17 16:22:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend of almost 20 years is always blaming me and my kids for her faults. I can not bring myself to tell her to stop.
I am intimidated by her, you can not argue with this person.

2006-10-17 16:22:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-17 16:22:03 · 8 answers · asked by Black Mafia 2 in Singles & Dating

ok my husband and i have been so nice and took in a family there both 19 and ther daughter is almost 2 well he has a drinking problem and one night he got so angry and went kinda crazy and slit his wrist and throat i told my husband i wont them out there destoring our apartment and it's so stressful but my husband wont tell tehm to leave he wants to help but i us. Everytime we live the guy calls to ask were we are who he will walk in on us when we are trying to have alone time because he is BORED. I dont know hat to do HELP ME. And also i want him to go to get help but if i do that he will be in jail becaus ei found out about 20 mintues ago he has a warent fro his arrest. What do i do. my husband wont listen to waht i have to say about it.

2006-10-17 16:20:23 · 21 answers · asked by nicole51304 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my brother in law has been calling me up and tells me that he loves me n wants a relationship with me .i dont think this is right .he is seducing me and i feel so helpless .i havent told anyone about this beacuse i know that no one would believe me if i tell them what he has been up to .he talks me in in a different way as if iam his wife .he tells me iam grown up now n he loves me n wants an affair with me .what shall i do ????

2006-10-17 16:20:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

For example, if I give my husband a hug, he thinks I am asking for sex. Also, if I give him a simple kiss, he thinks I am teasing him into sex. I am at the point where I think twice before showing any affection in order to avoid sending the wrong message. Why can't men understand that sometimes we only want affection without having to go all the way into sex?

2006-10-17 16:19:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My cousin has so much things that I like things like tiffany and co. louis vuittion handbags and all expensive clothing so much of everything and I am so jealous because I want things like that but i just dont have that kind of money it hurts me so bad to see her with all that and i cant have that life i am greatful for what i do have but what can i do it bothers me that she has everything.

2006-10-17 16:18:34 · 6 answers · asked by babygirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

and follow through with it without feeling bad or guilty?

2006-10-17 16:18:33 · 13 answers · asked by Doc 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just got out of a 4 year relationship and it is still very rough. my ex constantly calls and wants to know where i am at, what i am doing, and he gets very angry and threatens to do bad things. in the meantime, i am constantly being asked by guys to hang out or go out on dates or if they can have my phone number, and i am not ready for any other relashinships. How do i tell a guy they cannot have my phone number or that i am not interested in hanging out??

2006-10-17 16:18:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 16:18:20 · 12 answers · asked by Thomas L 1 in Singles & Dating

She's beautiful and has green eyes

2006-10-17 16:17:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Alright, I just moved back home to my rent's house and my boyfriend stayed with me for a week while my mother was gone. Well, we took him to his moms and left him there because he can't stay with us. We have been off and on for 4 years. I am tired of it and sick of him, he does drugs and doesn't care about anyone but himself. I love him and always will and we have a 7 month old together. I want to break-up but how do you break up with someone you can't see?! Help!

2006-10-17 16:16:48 · 4 answers · asked by duckie0411 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend of nearly 11 months left me last monday. I avoided him for a week until I gave in and came up to him to talk and try to be friends. We reconciled. He is a totally commitment-phobe. He gets scared so easily. It happened before. He came back after a week as well. (we were only together for a week when that happened the first time).

Now he says he wants to start fresh. all that puppy love crap. He wants to talk about us "today" and not too far into the future like before.

He wants a "regular" highschool boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.

But I can't help but feel hurt that he doesn't want to talk about loving me. He wants to wait until we're older and who knows if we'll last that long?

He says he's not using me. He says that he respects me.

But what the hell, guys?

He's 18. A senior in high school. I'm a junior. He's leaving for college and will be in the state for 2 years.

Is he doing the right thing by slowing down like that?

2006-10-17 16:16:45 · 4 answers · asked by Gwyn 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 16:16:36 · 5 answers · asked by babalu2 5 in Singles & Dating

We spent like 7 hrs talking and he gave me a passionate kiss at the end. He called me that night to say thank you for a great time and actually said that he owed me dinner. Anyway, I emailed him the next day just to say hi or whatever y' know. He emailed me back to say hi back and actually called me later that night. So, I sort of told him that there's this movie I want to see and he said "I'd love to go see that with you sometime" and I suggested this weekend but then he said "I had to make sure something with my supervisor first and he said he'd call me back and let me know". Well, that was sunday ... and he emailed me on Monday just to say Hi but didn't mention anything about 2nd date. I know it's only Tuesday now but I really like him, so what should I do? Should I call him? I don't want him to feel like I'm clingy ... or should I wait till for his call? Any advices? Does he like me or just messing with me? I do know that he said he worked night shift at his work this wk

2006-10-17 16:15:44 · 2 answers · asked by Nicegal 2 in Singles & Dating

last 6 years he was my life. The only thing I had done was loved him. He loved me a lot. But now he is with another. I couldn't realize this. I want to foget him. The only boy I saw on this earth was he. I'm scare of my future. I couldn't love another as I loved him. I thought this will be my first & last love. But he changed my whole life. He gave me lots of Hopes. Therefore I won't fogive him. Because of his new affire he hurt me a lot. The last time he spoke, to me he told he will not marry. He will be along. I asked why? He told b'coz of the bad thing that he did to me. Also he told if I know the reason why he did like this, I feel sorry about him. Pls let me know how can I rebuilt my broken heart. I feel I coudn't love anyone else. He was love with me. But how he went with another?In this case I feel terribal with girls. For last 6 years he was my life. So I didn't think about me. So how can I live now. Happy to die. But my mother loves me alot.Why he did this to me?

2006-10-17 16:14:15 · 17 answers · asked by Krishanthi C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he needs to know some impotant things about our son

2006-10-17 16:14:08 · 1 answers · asked by annnorthcat 1 in Family

I mean when you get in is the water always too hot or too cold and then when you get out its always cold

am i the only one or what???

2006-10-17 16:12:33 · 19 answers · asked by MAtt M 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 16:11:52 · 16 answers · asked by budi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, answer this q for me, title was for attention grabbing

I have dated some girls for a while but I tended to enjoy single life/pick up better. Now I have found a girl that is so beauful, smart and kind and I cannot control my thoughts, she is all I think about. From the first moment I saw her I knew she was special. But I don't know how to even approach her. I am so angry at myself because I feel like I am a 13 year old loser. I don't know what to say when I am around her, i don't know how to initiate converstaion with her, and I really don't want to screw it up because of the way I feel about her. I need some advice as to how to slowly establish a relationship with her that can potentially move onto somehthing else. I don't want answers like 'just walk up and ask her out' or 'just do it, what have you got to lose' I am at university and we aren't in the same degree although we share classes. Tell me what to do, Jumpy needs some advice for his damaged ego

2006-10-17 16:11:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating