Damn it I need help and quickly my girlfriend just stormed out and told me she was going to screw my best mate

Question

Ok, answer this q for me, title was for attention grabbing

I have dated some girls for a while but I tended to enjoy single life/pick up better. Now I have found a girl that is so beauful, smart and kind and I cannot control my thoughts, she is all I think about. From the first moment I saw her I knew she was special. But I don't know how to even approach her. I am so angry at myself because I feel like I am a 13 year old loser. I don't know what to say when I am around her, i don't know how to initiate converstaion with her, and I really don't want to screw it up because of the way I feel about her. I need some advice as to how to slowly establish a relationship with her that can potentially move onto somehthing else. I don't want answers like 'just walk up and ask her out' or 'just do it, what have you got to lose' I am at university and we aren't in the same degree although we share classes. Tell me what to do, Jumpy needs some advice for his damaged ego

LOL read my addtional details, the titile of my q isnt true, i made it up so people would read it, they weren't b4.

Answer 1

Maybe if you spent less time online she wouldn't be neglected and run off to screw someone else.

Answer 2

What would be ok for her to say to you to start up a conversation?

Just about anything right?

Well, the same applies for you. You can start a conversation with her the same way; that is, with just about any topic you can think of.

If, for some reason, it doesn't go well. Then face it like a man. She's not into you right now. Maybe later.

And, if not later, then you've done yourself a big favor by finding out soon and not wasting your time any further.

If it doesn't go well and you insist in torturing yourself by continuing to pursue this, well, yes, you are a 13 year old loser.

Go for it, and if it doesn't go well, then walk away.

If there's one thing I've learned in life, it's that if things don't go well, then they weren't meant to happen. There's something better waiting for you down the road.

Answer 3

Throw a potluck and invite her to it. If she is at all interested she will probably go. There you can spend time with her to get to know her better. This is ultimately what you need is time you can spend with her.

It is pretty hard to start a relationship straight off the bat. Usually these types don't last.

Be her friend but not too much of her friend else you'll be eternally type cast.

Don't forget to subtly flirt with her. You'll know if she's giving you the green lights. If so you know what to do.

Whatever you do don't balk when opportunity comes a knockin. I hope things work out for you.

Answer 4

ok, i am lot older then you. but let me try to answer this. are there any of your friends in the same class, that may know this girl. maybe you could get them to ask her to go as a group for something to eat. i don't mean a huge meal.pizza/salad. or you could have a party and ask her to come. do you need any help with your class work, maybe you could ask her for the help. even if you don't really need the help you could ask , just make it a really good ?, . and i know you didn't want to hear this but just ask her out, believe me that may be the best, not necessarily the easiest thing to do, but do you want her to get away from you ,think about it.

Answer 5

Hey... You said you're in some of her classes? Start up a conversation about class... Maybe about how she did on a quiz or about the instructor or something... This way she will gradually get to know you and you will naturally have something to talk about. Soon you can study together and talk about your interests and start spending time together outside of class. Eventually you'll become comfortable enough with her to talk about how you truly feel. Good Luck!

Answer 6

Good for you, finally found one worth catching! Since you do have some classes together, why not sit close enough to spark a conversation with her. After talking to her a little try asking her out. You seem like a nice enough guy, I hope she gives you a chance. Or try getting her a pretty flower and asking her out, I know it sounds corny, but girls actually like corny.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Tell her how you feel. If I guy talked to me and told me all those things you just wrote about her... I'd fall head over heals in an instant.

But try to ask her out for a drink or someting first.. don't just walk up to her and start pouring your heart out... she'll think you're the stalker type.

Answer 9

okay first thang first u need to know if she's with someone but it not check her out as far as what kind of guy she like u know but until u know for sure just write her a cute short letter, buy her some flowers, find out her favorite music and make her a cd, look man u just have to do something before it be to late and she be with someone else knowing it should be u
good luck and i hope i helped ua

Answer 10

Many people are in the same predicament *** you. First does she know you? Do you know her name her hobbies her classes? Many boys just automatically think the like a girl and then they should just ask her out, but did you give her a chance to develop an interest in you? Does she know you if she doesnt, get to know her and get her to know you. INTRODUCE YOURSELF. Be for real and be calm.