okay well we have been together for 4 months and we love each other nad he treats me and my family like crap but i still REALLY love him!!!!! help!
2006-10-17 17:05:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WELL ITS REALLY HARD TO DUMP ANYONE YOU LOVE. BUT IF HE DONT RESPECT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY THEN WHAT IS THE USE.
YOU THINK URSELF, CAN YOU SPEND YOUR LIFE WITH SOMEONE WHO DONT RESPECT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
2006-10-17 17:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you can't love him yet, since your only dating him for 4 months. Second of all, how the hell do you love someone that treats YOU like crap and most importantly your family like crap. That's lust!!! My boyfriend says sounds like you like him probably because he's cool or something. Pay attention to what you want in life and what is important to you and then decide if this guy has the potential to be boyfriend material. Remember there's no friend like your family. Good Luck.
2006-10-18 00:11:54 · answer #2 · answered by sansan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like a bad habit. If he is treating you AND your family like crap, then he is not someone you want to be with. He will probably never change and he does not love you. Someone who loves you will treat you AND your family with the respect that they deserve. Give him his marching orders and find someone else to be with.
2006-10-18 00:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by Just another 2D character online 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say we love each other. Wrong. If he loved you he would not treat you or your family like crap.
2006-10-18 00:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by auntynoall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will really suffer as I have suffered.Such boys are really worth dumping, don't consider they are worth loving.I believe Love is Blind.It doesn't see any fault rather Love and only Love.But this blindness is a severe mistake, a very big mistake.I am just warning you to save yourself from this severe suffering that might come your way.Please leave this boy immediately.I know it would be very tough but please try it you can do it.It was really very tough for me when I left my boy friend who always kept insulting me.The more I showed care to him and gave love to him, the more he started misbehaving with me and kept insulting me.Then one day I thought I am not slave to him neither he provides me the basic needs of life, why to lose my dignity and self respect with such a person.
It made me make the final decision of dumping him because such boys don't worth loving.Infact, your boyfriend knows he is your weakness that is why is behaving rude with you and one day he will dump you very badly and before this day please save yourself.It will be easy at start but if you passed more time with him then, it will be really very tough for you to dump him.
Simply, STOP seeing him, because he doesn't deserve You.You deserve some one better who really knows how to respect you and your family.
2006-10-18 00:19:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be stupid, babe. If he treats you like crap now he's going to treat you like crap forever. But you love him for a reason. Do the good times outweigh bad times? If so, then YOU gotta be the judge... Not us...
2006-10-18 00:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by ks_stud_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him i'll treat u and ur family nice, but ill treat u like a queen
2006-10-18 00:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by Steven Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl i would dump him quick, u dont need someone that will treat u and your family like crap.
2006-10-18 00:09:12 · answer #8 · answered by Gansta Gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He treats you and your family like crap???? OH MY GOD! how can u say u love him?? family comes first.do u want to see your guy dissing your family like that?? he even treats u like crap. HE DOESNT RESPECT YOU! & if he doesnt respect you, HE DOESNT LOVE YOU!!! cant u see that?? do u want your boyfriend to treat you and your family like trashbag? god, who is that guy???!!?!?
he prolly using u.break up.open your eyes girl.
2006-10-18 00:10:23 · answer #9 · answered by dolly parker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he treats u like crap..then it gets no better ... so i think u should leave .. u will love him more tomarrow than u do right now ...and it will get even harder to leave him later
2006-10-18 00:09:46 · answer #10 · answered by lezbianflava 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋