i think my friend has a crush on me
other people say shes always touching me
but i see that she touches all the guys
so shes very touchy
what would some signs be of me being special to her that she would show
2006-10-17 16:58:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she will press up against me when she walks with me
2006-10-17 17:02:34 · update #1
Listen if you are worried that she is lesbian just ask her in private. Simply let her know you are not sure how to take the touchy feely that she has displayed, let her know how it makes you feel...at the same time if she is a friend assure her no matter what her prerogative is that you will still be her friend but you are not into it , if that is your choice. Just be honest with her she will respect you a whole lot more. LL.
2006-10-17 17:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by italliansweety67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are simply like that so the only way you can know for sure would be to ask her.
Of course this could be a bit embarrassing but it would clear the situation once and for all. Even if she is a little bit attracted by you, if you're already friends it may be possible to still be friends after that, although that depends.
2006-10-18 00:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by juliepelletier 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls are just naturally flirty. But if your friends are seeing things that lead them to believe that she is into you, well then I would think that they probably are right.
Does she linger a little longer when she touches you? Does she smile all the way up to her eyes when she sees you? Does she seek you out to talk to you? Does she rest her head on you? Does she look into your eyes when you are talking? Does she make sure that she sits closest to her?
Talk to her best friend. If you are interested in moving from friends to something more, tell her friend. Her best friend will probably know if she is into you.
Or the most direct route would be to ask her out. Ask her to go to a movie or out to dinner with you. I ended out marrying my best friend and wouldn't have it anyother way. Neither one of us knew that it was going to happen until it did. Communication is the biggest key to a good relationship so start out the right way now.
If you don't want to be anything other than friends and you find out she is into you, just tell her that your friendship means too much to you to take the chance of messing it up.
Good luck and remember you have nothing to lose.
Edit:
I just read some of your other questions, if this is the same girl:
GO FOR IT!!!! She is way into you.
You are her Dr. McDream, Student McHottie or Guy McSteamy (I hope you watch Greys Anatomy or this comment won't make sense to you)
Just treat her with respect and be romantic (write her notes or give her single flowers) girls go crazy over stuff like that.
2006-10-18 00:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by kim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The pressing up against you when you walk thing? Sounds like you might be right.
When there are 5 or 6 ppl in a group - having a conversation, watch her eyes. Is she watching you most of the time, or splitting up who she looks at evenly. Also watch, when you look directly back INTO her eyes - what does she do? If she holds that gaze, then she's into you.
Good luck.
2006-10-18 00:06:59 · answer #4 · answered by Black Parade Billie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her if she likes you...thats all....she might be a hoochie or a flirt towards all men, so watch out..but my boyfriends says test her..play little games like getting too close and try holding her hand, and see how she reacts. If she doesn't want to be seen holding your hand, you know it's a "no no". If she lets it fly, then just ask. If all else fails, do what the first guy said..
2006-10-18 00:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by sansan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she like tickle you, holds your arm when u walk together, and other stuff u know. I guess....
2006-10-18 00:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by Xero 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She touches you in different places. :)
2006-10-18 00:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is always apearing where you are. She talks to you when she can.
2006-10-18 00:01:46 · answer #8 · answered by pleasantville982001 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
shes desperate, hit it & leave
then smack her over the head with a tv in the morning
and run
2006-10-17 23:59:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋