Family & Relationships - 15 October 2006

2006-10-15 18:41:08 · 13 answers · asked by cool 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like my boyfriend tyler. He is a great person. It is hard to find a guy that treats me the way he does. He treats me really good. He expresses his feelings truely to me. But the thing is he does pot and i dont like that about him. He said he was going to cut down on it. i trust him. But i dont know if he can cut down like he said he would. is it possible to cut down that quickly. i dont know what to say or do to him. he told me what a realationship means to him. that a realationship to him is sexually active or somthing like that and well i dont want to get that involved. he told me if there is no sexual realationship then i would me a boring girlfriend and there shouldnt be a relationship. i love him but i dont know if he loves me back but he always says he loves me and well he never really hangs out with me at lunch time at school. he goes to hang out with his friends to smoke cigerettes or pot. i am only in 11th grade.he is a year younger than me i dont wanna lose him.

2006-10-15 18:38:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I are both a little over weight, and we both have seperate bad habbits (his is mountain dew and mine is sugar in my coffee) neither of us really exersize enough either. Nothing big but it'd be good if we were both a little more fit. Is it weird or cheesy to ask him to set goals with me about not falling back into our bad habbits? Is it unreasonable to ask him to do this with me?

2006-10-15 18:38:17 · 12 answers · asked by jinxintheworld 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 18:37:52 · 14 answers · asked by JJJ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 25 and going to have a baby soon. The dad is gone and I am not putting him on the birth cert so I will get no child support and there is no way around that unless I want the life of my child and I to be in danger. I make 1600 a month and rent is 600 a month with gas and electric. I do not qualify for any assistance when it comes to childcare because I am about 100 over the guideline. Childcare is 650-950 a month. How can I raise a baby on 1600 a month when rent is 600 and daycare is 650-950. I have no relatives to watch the baby for free and no place to live for free. How can I not get assistance for childcare. I have checked everything social secuity and everything and I make too much but that will not be enough to live. That is not including internet or cable which i have not but i guess I will have to cancel. How do other single moms do it in pittsburgh? Should I put my baby up for adoption? I know other mothers have done it and been worse off than me but how???

2006-10-15 18:36:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-15 18:35:45 · 9 answers · asked by dj 1 in Family

I want to get my girls (there are 5 of them, including the Maid of Honor) silver bracelets with the plates on them where I can have their names engraved. I already have the place to have their names engrave ($100 for all 5 bracelets), but where can I get the bracelets where they won't be so expensive?

2006-10-15 18:34:45 · 6 answers · asked by Bachman-ette 4 in Weddings

2006-10-15 18:33:57 · 11 answers · asked by ♥BestKeptSecret♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 18:32:03 · 6 answers · asked by wolflady 6 in Family

Here's the scenario.
Me and this girl have liked each other for a few weeks now. Thing is, she has this friend John that is 3 years older (senior) . He has a history of hitting girls, treating them badly, and other bad things, but she is naiive to this and still hangs out with him. i try to ask her not to b/c i dont want her to get hurt but i think this is interferring because i know he wants to get with her. I don't know what to do about him and i want to know if you guys think i should handle this physically or just forget about both of them or another option

Thanks!

2006-10-15 18:31:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went throught my first breakup and I'm 30 (I know...I'm a late bloomer.). I'm not handling it very well. I knew him for 2 years and I thought he really cared for me. I feel like every kind word he ever said was a lie now. In the end he was just "not into it" and he was a rude jerk at the end, too. Hurtful and very insensitive. Now I'm left with the feeling that nothing (an no one) is good in this world. Any positive outlook that I might have had about people and relationships is gone and that frightens me. How do I get that back? I am so terribly scarred, I think... I feel that this is a horrible world we live in. :-(

2006-10-15 18:31:07 · 7 answers · asked by Sophie 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 36yrs old, been married for 11yrs and I have no idea why all of a sudden I'm actually asking the guys at work to go out and have a drink with me. I haven't done anything with any of them, yet!, but if its only a matter of time, I just know it. I even tell my husband that I've gone to the bar with this 26yr old...what in God's name is wrong with me??? mid-life crisis? what??

2006-10-15 18:30:52 · 3 answers · asked by ohsouncertain 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

PLEASE ANSWER THIS QUESTION QITHOUT JUDGING... WE HAVE TO USE SOMEONELSES PISS TO PASS BUT WE HAVE THERE PISS NOW AND THE TEST IS IN 3 OR 4 DAYS...OK HELP US OUT PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

2006-10-15 18:29:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-15 18:28:05 · 5 answers · asked by mazam96 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 18:25:41 · 6 answers · asked by cruisingalong 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-15 18:25:11 · 14 answers · asked by maverick 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this guy friend who seems to me to be gay, he shops like a girl but he does have 6 sister he grew up with. He likes to shop at the bannana and express for men. He always looks classy and he bought a 300.00 pair of eel skin shoes. He likes music that is techno, madonna, classical, or music themes from movies such as Devil wears prada or something like that. Is he gay or metro?

2006-10-15 18:24:10 · 14 answers · asked by Windy 2 in Friends

the last 2weeks have been a night mare and i cant seem to wake up from it i feel like i am lost in this nightmare and in this night mare no heart no friends no feeling just the feeling of being lost

2006-10-15 18:19:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hav been talking to an indian guy for 6 months...i am from australia and i am travelling to visit him soon. I'm thinking about moving there to be with him...but i am a lil worried cos i'm not sure if we will get along. We have alot in common...and we luv each other alot...i'm just really nervous about the culture difference...and if i will adapt. Do u think that i should give it a go...and see wat happens?

2006-10-15 18:19:13 · 11 answers · asked by Sal 1 in Singles & Dating

she made me quit smoking and other things. i should i stand up for myself without pissing her off?

2006-10-15 18:19:13 · 8 answers · asked by stan 1 in Singles & Dating

my moms boyfriend is a @$$hole. he is a bum because he has lived with us for 3 years and hasent had a job since he moved in. he makes my mom pay for every thing and lays around all day. we have chased him out once but he came back 1 month later. i dont want to kill him i just want a good prank or suggestion to get him out. dont tell me there is nothing to do because i know there is a way

2006-10-15 18:19:05 · 14 answers · asked by JANE 2 in Family

Why do some people put their personal goals ahead of people they love?

2006-10-15 18:19:05 · 7 answers · asked by Mark E 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you like it when you get your a** grabbed during sex?

2006-10-15 18:18:44 · 8 answers · asked by shugabam! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

we use to have a RADDD!! sex life...... it died down a little after we had 2 boys in a row, but still good. Last year I had 2 surgeries, including a hysterectomy, and now, nothing. He's 33 and I'm 39, but we've been married for 9 years...does that make a difference? Now I want it and he doesn't, go figure. Any advice?

2006-10-15 18:17:26 · 22 answers · asked by tbtt&b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-15 18:16:04 · 32 answers · asked by ashley29501 2 in Singles & Dating

CLASSMATE

2006-10-15 18:15:35 · 19 answers · asked by Ishan Gupta 1 in Friends

2006-10-15 18:13:35 · 5 answers · asked by lovez2bheld 1 in Friends

My friends were married for 10 yrs, with 2 kids. Suddenly she stated she wasn't happy, and served him with divorce papers, moves out, looses weight, but still comes to family functions with her inlaws, She left him the house, kids 90% of the time, and he has more money now than he did while married He's such a hard worker and gave her anything she wanted, she had it made. What is her problem.

2006-10-15 18:11:39 · 11 answers · asked by Windy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

chronic boredom when it comes to men? I mean, do any of you find that no man can keep your attention long enough to make a relationship work regardless of finding him interesting, attractive, and caring? Further, any of you ever get passed this with someone? I am very curious and have a vested interest in the answers.

2006-10-15 18:11:25 · 6 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

is it normal to only have had a few girlfriends bythe time your 16 and none of them being serious relationships. I can say I've had only 1 for about 2 weeks and that's pretty much it. I'm not gay or anything... but i just don't get girlfriends. At times, this hurts my self esteem and i envy people. Tips/Comments/Suggestions?

2006-10-15 18:11:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating