Family & Relationships - 15 October 2006

2006-10-15 18:09:44 · 7 answers · asked by Mappet V 1 in Friends

i got pregnant bout 2wks and my relationship with my bf has been shaky for bout month...it is a 5month relationship...we both knew what had 2 b done...and that day when i went to the clinic after he hung out with me and i was tryin to c if he was interested in me and i told him dat one of my guy friends wants me to move in with them...and he was like hells to the no....so with sht like dat i think he is....but then @ same time he has 3 jobs nw and he calls me aftter i call him or calls me when he thinks im angry at him...he has also told me that he loves me..and the week b4 i went through the aborttion i told him he is amazing and i would want him 2 b the father of my children ..and when we he was reconsiderin keepin it he was like we havent even gone to vacation 2gether.nevermind now another human being along...he even apologized 2 my mother about getting me preg...and he had never really known her...pls he still asks me is ur mother mad at me..2 me all these show that he is interstd

2006-10-15 18:09:17 · 5 answers · asked by mariapican 2 in Singles & Dating

How can i really tell if my man of 1 year is truly and utterly over his physco ex-girlfriend. They had alot of history 2gether (she put him through hell). He doesn't call her, speak to her or have any contact with her & he always tells me his is over her and never wants anything to do with her again....but i just cant help but think he will go back to her if she comes back and tries to get him. She sms'd him the other night saying "i love you & miss you" and he just laughed and showed me and said what an idiot she was and how glad he was that he has me......am i being stupid? Should i stop worrying & trust him??

2006-10-15 18:08:17 · 4 answers · asked by bellajezz 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, this girl and i have been really close friends for about 2yrs .
for probably the last 6 months we have been talking about the fact that we could actually see our selves married to one another.We are both divorced,she is 38 and I am 33.We do have alot in common,however she lives in another state,so does age matter?
Help, i am confused....

2006-10-15 18:06:28 · 9 answers · asked by sale dog 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-15 18:06:25 · 8 answers · asked by clark k 1 in Friends

ohkay, so i met this guy because i used to date his best friend, and we started talking. this was 4 yrs ago. he was in love with me after me and his friend broke up but i turned him down. if you want to know the truth i turned him down because i knew it would work out and i wasnt ready to "settle down".. ive dated other ppl and same with him. but we both know we get jealous when the other tells a story about hanging out with a new boyfriend.girlfriend.. now, we;re both single and very close. we tell eachother we love eachother everyday and we had a very first kiss 2 wks ago. we've done more since then,but not all the way,, you know? i dont know what to do? i dont know if his feelings are real or not. is he just trying to friends w/ benifits? what should i tell him? HELPP!!!


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2006-10-15 18:06:12 · 6 answers · asked by chels. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The other day I blew up at my seventeen year old grandson when I found out he had a picture up on myspace that I didn't like. He was wearing clothes his father picked out. I told him to delete the picture, and in so many words, he asked me why. I told him because I didn't want to remember what a bad job my parenting skills were. He said that that was all his father's choice.

Maybe I should explain. A week ago he was kidnapped by his father, forced to have sex twice with his father's partner (a male), and tormented the whole five days he was missing.

Today, after he said that, I blew up. I shoved him so hard, he fell off the chair and into the keyboard. I told him that what I said went, and that he shouldn't have any opinons about it, like it or not. I told him that it was probably his fault he got kidnapped, too. After that he went to his room and I haven't seen him since (it's been two hours.) How do I say "I'm sorry?" I don't want to just say it because I know he wont believe me.

2006-10-15 18:06:09 · 18 answers · asked by Lisa X 1 in Family

Any suggestions for ways to spice up my sex life with my boyfriend? i'm up for most things... just something new and exciting

2006-10-15 18:05:46 · 13 answers · asked by babydoll 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 18 and my parents love to drink...I have been abused since I was born and even before that my mom tried to have an abortion when she found out I was a boy...she even tells me now that I was a mistake and that she wanted a girl....I am abused physically mentally and verbally by my two sisters and my parents...every day I am left with bruises and cutts...but last time I went to the police my parents convinced them that I did those to myself that they were self inflicted them...I have often thought about suicide...following in the stes of some of my other froiends...I have a job but all the mony is directly deposited into an account my parents have control over...I just do not know what to do anymore....I feel I have run out of options...

2006-10-15 18:04:37 · 16 answers · asked by Adam 1 in Family

I mean "better" as in income, intelligence, class, education level, etc. I certainly do. Are most other men like that?

2006-10-15 18:03:20 · 8 answers · asked by str8trisor 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i lost 4-6m.i want to know how i can do it longer

2006-10-15 18:02:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have to leave my bfriend of 2 yrs 'cause hes just not the same & i dont feel it from him anymore & my heart is breaking (scream) I hate this part! we were almost engaged. he had "second thoughts" & hes sending the ring back even though he says he loves me & doesnt want to break up. im so confused. i cant stay, NOW, can I? pls. be sweet.

2006-10-15 18:01:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

a boy i like is name tony and i want to know if anyone knows him or knows a boy named tony..

2006-10-15 18:01:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I´m 25 , i´m pretty, slim, about to become a psychologist but I had never had a boyfriend, I had gobe out with guy but the relationships never evolve to boyfriend-girlfriend, why? I don´t get it every time another girl comes around and takes them I don´t get it help meeee? why would this be?

2006-10-15 18:01:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 18:01:12 · 9 answers · asked by stan 1 in Singles & Dating

he says that is for my own good cause right now his carrer is more important and he do want us to be friends cause maybe after he get his life going we could probably get back together,but he already hurt me.how do i deal with this pain??

2006-10-15 18:00:44 · 9 answers · asked by johanny g 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 18:00:35 · 14 answers · asked by Dore 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf spends $ left and right. Easily spends 200 on the bar and eating out every single week. Spends another 50 here and there for sporting events and concerts. Hes been making close to 60k a year for almost 2 years and hasnt saved anything.

If i says anything about it, he goes, i work hard and deserve it. So i have always let it slide, but now hes complaining about spending money to come visit me at college cause his "money is tight." Yet he still goes out and spends hundreds on beer. I feel neglected and like the last priority he has.

2006-10-15 18:00:21 · 10 answers · asked by Freaked out 3 in Singles & Dating

Why does someone is not cool about yahoo answer? When you answer them straight and direct they will complain that she has been insulted. But her question is nonsense?How about that?

2006-10-15 17:59:25 · 13 answers · asked by just me 3 in Friends

i just want to b nice i just cant not run after the gals as most of the guys in my city do thts why ?? i am single!!
how can i get a nice gf for my self!!
do plz anwes thnx

2006-10-15 17:59:06 · 5 answers · asked by mohit j 1 in Friends

Why does someone is not cool about yahoo answer? When you answer them straight and direct they will complain that she has been insulted. But her question is nonsense?How about that?

2006-10-15 17:58:07 · 4 answers · asked by just me 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Sometimes I like to go to the club with my homies but one of my buddies get into a scuffle with this chick and she beats his *** everytime we go to his club. So do you think Mickey should learn how to fight because he gets his *** kicked all the time!

2006-10-15 17:57:48 · 4 answers · asked by ken31pop 2 in Friends

I'm interested in someone who has the last name as one of my grandmother's. I'm thinking it isn't very likely we are related because I have very mixed heritage and he doesn't, but I don't know its still kinda weird ..so what do you think about it?

2006-10-15 17:57:05 · 18 answers · asked by k.vee 2 in Singles & Dating

my husband always wants to watch porn.... why is this i think its nasty????

2006-10-15 17:56:45 · 5 answers · asked by ohio_gurl042 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

the last person I dated(4 one month) he freaked out after we kissed even though he got very sexually excited we only made out(passionately) and then he didn't return my calls.I was his first kiss(he was 21).he was saying he doesn't know what he is doing said his mind was racing a mile a minute. So I don't want to do this with the next guy. We've been flirting and good friends for almost 4 months now.we both like each other but he's never had a g/f b-4 either.when he comes home from college(2hours away) I want to kiss him but not scare him off or get him 2 excited.we hug a lot and playfully touch each other.I figure have him over my house,sit with him, hold his hand, lean on him then kiss his cheek if I think he's happy about it go for his lips then see if he tries to really kiss me and afterwards ask him how he feels. I want to make him comfortable and ready, not overwhelmed.any other physical signs I should show him to let him know I want to kiss?and are my ideas good?

2006-10-15 17:56:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it me or that I find them highly interesting in many ways other then attraction towards Leos and Taureans.

2006-10-15 17:54:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 17:53:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need help.. my family need help!?
I am a 19 years old college student (female), I need help with my family problems.. and my parent's marriage problems. I have an older brother(21) and a younger brother(12) In my family, we have argument every single day. my parent's can't communicate without turning into a argument, I can't communicate with my mom, my older brother doesn't share his feeling with the parents. Our family doesn't function like a family. Just now we got into another big argument. My mom to me now is a religious freak! she's making me going crazy! PLEASE..I need help.. i don't want to live like this anymore. For years and years, I am tired! This is affecting everyone in our family.. PLEASE.. does any one know if there are free or cheaper marriage/family counseling.. i don't know where to look for them. i work part-time with min. wage, and our family aren't wealthy.. i am just looking for any help that can imporve our family relationship.. please help.. THANK YOU..

2006-10-15 17:51:46 · 10 answers · asked by mo 3 in Family

I sleep from 12:30am until 6:30am. 6 hours, then i send my kids off too school.At 8am till 11am i take an 2 hour nap to complete my 8 hours.
i don't know if u undestand what i'm trying to say, but is it bad not too sleep 8 hours straight , is it possible to make up for lost sleep?
how many hours a night do u get sleep and how doesthat make u feel?

2006-10-15 17:50:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Today was my birthday and my boyfriend of 4 years is lacking money and he tried to pick me out a couple of presents and honestly they were not my style at all. He got me an alarm clock, a pillow with wolves on it, and a dead butterfly preserved in a case (its kind of pretty.) I thought it was sweet that he came up with (stole) some cash to get me some things. He kept asking me over and over if I liked my gifts. I have never lied to my boyfriend but I felt like I couldn't tell him that his choices were not so great...
Is it ok to lie in this situation?
Anyone else had to do the same or did you handle it differently?

2006-10-15 17:50:34 · 41 answers · asked by *Amanda* 5 in Singles & Dating