the last person I dated(4 one month) he freaked out after we kissed even though he got very sexually excited we only made out(passionately) and then he didn't return my calls.I was his first kiss(he was 21).he was saying he doesn't know what he is doing said his mind was racing a mile a minute. So I don't want to do this with the next guy. We've been flirting and good friends for almost 4 months now.we both like each other but he's never had a g/f b-4 either.when he comes home from college(2hours away) I want to kiss him but not scare him off or get him 2 excited.we hug a lot and playfully touch each other.I figure have him over my house,sit with him, hold his hand, lean on him then kiss his cheek if I think he's happy about it go for his lips then see if he tries to really kiss me and afterwards ask him how he feels. I want to make him comfortable and ready, not overwhelmed.any other physical signs I should show him to let him know I want to kiss?and are my ideas good?
2006-10-15 17:56:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like your idea, I mean yeah its alittle odd on his part to freak out, but you seem to be patient and willing to work him past it, no offence but enless there is something wrong with him, he should be putty in your hands, I am 24 and I still think that is a nice way to handle it
2006-10-15 18:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the kiss on the cheek idea is a good one. and sometime when you guys are by yourselves, talking or something just look him in the eyes. if you feel the connection, it will just happen.
2006-10-16 00:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by Ask&Receive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are on track.. if it's your first kiss... hold of on the tongue ...till you know he is ready...maybe he don't know to do it
2006-10-16 01:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
2006-10-16 00:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by snvffy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ooouuhhh...so nice
2006-10-16 01:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by eL'do-radO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋