he says that is for my own good cause right now his carrer is more important and he do want us to be friends cause maybe after he get his life going we could probably get back together,but he already hurt me.how do i deal with this pain??
2006-10-15 18:00:44 · 9 answers · asked by johanny g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he loved you in the first place, he wouldn't put things before you. If you let him think that you're the type of girl that he can just dispose of when others things are more important, he'll be doing that for the rest of your life. Move on and I hope that you find someone who really appreciates you for who you are.
2006-10-15 18:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hurts I'm sure...but as for his own good....he needs to study and make something for himself. and for his future...maybe take this time and do the same for yourself. Maybe by the time you are both done...you could be two very successful people. If he spends his time not trying to study....but have fun and games...and worry that comes with a relationship...it could get in the way/// you should do the same...keep close help each other and be friends...
2006-10-15 18:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
READ MY LIPS, He is a jerk and does not want to date you, he is just into something, or someone else. It hurts because you feel violated and a fool. But just remember, you are free of him, and you do not to need to go with someone who is not into you, so feel blessed that he will not hurt you. There is someone else so much better, so just go on and get busy and find him. People break up, so just accept it, it has ended and be glad.
2006-10-15 18:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on!! He is at a different place right now. Respect his decission. Why try to glom on when he is moving on??? Do yourself a favor, DON'T just wait around for him. He said it as plain as he could, his CAREER is MORE IMPORTANT. Just be his friend, but don't wait by the phone......
2006-10-15 18:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of a life or a future do you see with him if you crawl back to him when he decides his career not important anymore and he snaps his finger and lets you back into his life ?
2006-10-15 18:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by caciansf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a lesson. I learned it when I dated my EX. You have to have room in your life for another person. Since I got sick permanently, I decided I don't have room to date. Your EX is smart. At least he knew what he wanted and didn't drag you down in the process. Chin up!
2006-10-15 18:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't take this wrong but leave him if he's going to say he doesn'tt have a place for you.find someone that does & will love you for who you are no matter what but it's your own choice of course .you do what ever your heart tells you to but be carefull.it's allready been brocken once
2006-10-15 18:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by VECTOR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry. Be happy over his honesty. Your boyfriend has only decided what is best for you. Be glad and MOVE ON!
2006-10-15 18:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've got to move on and if you think you can be friends, then you need to try and be friends with him. if you can't then move on. if it's meant to be, then he'll come back around and find you.
2006-10-15 18:05:35 · answer #9 · answered by Ask&Receive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋