I´m 25 , i´m pretty, slim, about to become a psychologist but I had never had a boyfriend, I had gobe out with guy but the relationships never evolve to boyfriend-girlfriend, why? I don´t get it every time another girl comes around and takes them I don´t get it help meeee? why would this be?
2006-10-15 18:01:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-15 18:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by Oh Dee! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask a guy friend what you could do differently to make yourself more approachable. You might be giving off a vibe that says "I got it together and I don't need a man" (based on your opening sentence that seems like a possibility). Maybe the other girls are more open, relaxed, or willing to do things you aren't.
There is nothing wrong with not having a man. The longer you go without someone, the better you get to know yourself. This decreases the chances you'll make mistakes because you will know what you want and won't settle for anything less.
Enjoy being single and focus on school. When it's time for you to have someone you will. Don't rush it or you might regret it.
P.S. Being "pretty, slim" does not guarantee you a man.
2006-10-16 01:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by Shanna S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there hasn't been a connection between you and a man strong enough to evolve into a romantic relationship. What qualities are you looking for in a man? Don't date aimlessly, focus on going out with men who truly interest you for one reason or another. Just because other women came along and caught the interest of these men doesn't mean they were so special. And maybe these guys only wanted to have sex, and nothing else. What's so special about that? This is all speculation, but think about it and try to focus on what you want. Then be choose-y about who you date, and I think you'll have a better chance of getting into a special relationship.
2006-10-16 01:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by Chatelaine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will happen, be patient. At 25, you must have spent a lot of time in the books. Try some social organizations or get some friends together socially for a dinner, sports, travel...soon friends can become lovers as the they share experiences together. Consider church, community groups or just fun classes(art, hobbies) as a way of meeting peole. Bar scene too if you enjoy it.
2006-10-16 01:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know honestly as a 24 yr old guy, we are all pretty much stupid and make really stupid choices in life and drive ourselves crazy trying to think about why we made the choices we made, atleast speaking for those of us who think about the way our decisions effect everyone around us no matter how small the choice. You should be yourself and to hell with the ones that can't see the heart you have to offer. it should be someone that sees every flaw and still thinks your wonderful and makes you feel like your a queen with every step you take and every word you speak.......
2006-10-16 01:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you;ve just been wrapped up in your schooling. Phychology is a difficult subject and between courses and exams you may have not fully commited yourself towards finding a relationship. Take a break and go out and meet new people.
2006-10-16 01:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If indeed you are not doing something right, there is just not enough information here. I am inclined to believe that there are guys out there for you...more than your share. Just continue to be selective, maintain your integrity and keep your focus on your goals...love is definitely in your future.
2006-10-16 01:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by Robere 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe life is protecting you from getting a boyfriend cause you're not ready for one. Some times a boyfriend is bad, just causes you heart ache and pain. Like someone has grasped your heart and is squeezing it until it bursts.
2006-10-16 01:04:35 · answer #8 · answered by Unkown Girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you gotta let em know. Us men are kinda dumb about these things......and very reluctant to put ourselves on the line unless we know we have a chance. So let them know
2006-10-16 08:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by Eoin B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm, try asking the guy out instead--dont wait 4 the guy all the time
2006-10-16 01:12:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋