i have to leave my bfriend of 2 yrs 'cause hes just not the same & i dont feel it from him anymore & my heart is breaking (scream) I hate this part! we were almost engaged. he had "second thoughts" & hes sending the ring back even though he says he loves me & doesnt want to break up. im so confused. i cant stay, NOW, can I? pls. be sweet.
2006-10-15 18:01:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When it comes to committment, some folks get cold feet. I wouldn't say it is a bad thing that you are going through this journey.
I would first take a break from each other, perhaps agree to revisit your relationship in a certain time frame.
Each of you should write down, the reasons you want to get married and the reasons you may be having second thoughts.
You should each write down what you love about each other most and what you don't like about the person.
Don't talk about the above to later.
Seperate on a friendship basis, and both of you have some thinking to do.
Be prepared to hear good things about each other and not so good things about each other.
Most of all do not scream, yell, insult each other if you do break up, it gets you nowhere and will not do anything to revive the relationship.
Hope that helps you.
BTW. Most of us have been there and we feel for you. :D
2006-10-15 18:09:53 · answer #1 · answered by JC J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on baby, youll do fine.
Dont look back.
Two years is nothing in the grand scheme of things TRY 10!!!
<3
2006-10-16 01:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard, but dump him and don't look back.
He hurt your feeling and it'll only get worse if you stay. People are on their best behavior when you're dating. It'll only go downhill after you're married.
So if this is his best, good riddance!
Things will be so much better once you push through this.
2006-10-16 01:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and find some one else, but first do something for yourself and take a break.
2006-10-16 01:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him if you don't feel for him anymore
don't look back it might make u have second thoughts
move on and find someone you really care about
that is what i would do but my advise would really be do what you thinkis right and what your heart tells you to do
2006-10-16 01:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by sea 26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT OF THERE!!! or atleast go on a break.
obviously he has NO idea what he wants. give him time and space and if he comes running back then hell yes! but if he doent then it wasnt ment to be. im sorry to say!
2006-10-16 01:06:14 · answer #6 · answered by Candace Chloe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you deserve better than this wishy washy little squirt. let him take the ring back and you take your pride and move on.
2006-10-16 01:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by hamhead 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look it is not easy been married,but when you become his wife he will change and you also,the only thing that can keep both head straight true love.
2006-10-16 01:08:12 · answer #8 · answered by tamunosiki_mina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg that's really sad i just hope he changes his mind so you guys can grow old 2gether but i really do hope 4 the best k
much luv..
luvvydubby..
2006-10-16 01:05:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
move on because the world isn't going to stop and wait on him to get his s*** together
2006-10-16 01:06:00 · answer #10 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋