How can i really tell if my man of 1 year is truly and utterly over his physco ex-girlfriend. They had alot of history 2gether (she put him through hell). He doesn't call her, speak to her or have any contact with her & he always tells me his is over her and never wants anything to do with her again....but i just cant help but think he will go back to her if she comes back and tries to get him. She sms'd him the other night saying "i love you & miss you" and he just laughed and showed me and said what an idiot she was and how glad he was that he has me......am i being stupid? Should i stop worrying & trust him??
2006-10-15 18:08:17 · 4 answers · asked by bellajezz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One way to tell...kiss him. If you can feel a real spark when you kiss him he's probably clinging to you, but if he seems like he'd rather be anywhere else you might want to prepare for the worst. If he showed you the message unprovoked he probably he was probably using a reaction that is almost cat like. He brings in a dead mouse, lays it at your feet and waits for an affectionate approval. Most guys I've known that had psycho GFs leave them in the past where they belong and probably warn any of their guy friends to avoid her like the plague. Odds are, he's yours.
2006-10-15 18:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by John D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think you need to. There is NO WAY he would show you the sms if he didn't mean what he was telling you.
2006-10-16 01:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gees hello if he laughed and showed you the message then you have nothing to worry about, if you dont have trust you dont have a relationship
2006-10-16 01:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should ask him
if you don't think it is the right answer
make a plan
see if it is still going
see ya
2006-10-16 01:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by Janel N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋