what if the wife doesnt feel motivated enough to have sex?what should the husband and wife do?

Answer 1

there are several reasons for frigidity.first the wife is to analyze the problem for not being motivated towards sexual life with her husband.1.whether she is not loving her husband. 2.whether she loves another person . the husband is to explore the following causes for her frigidity. 1. whether she is suffering from depression 2.whether she had any traumatic experiences in her childhood like being subject to sexual abuse 3.whether she lost interest in intercourse after the children were born. it is quite natural for women after giving birth to children, their entire world is their children only and temporarily show no interest in coitus. 4. another reason the husband is to analyze is whether due to his bad habits, the wife is distancing from him 5.whether she is demotivated to participate due to imbalance in hormone levels. both the husband and wife are to analyze the causes referred to above. and find a solution. if the wife is not showing interest in cohabitation, due to physical or psychological reasons, the husband should take her to a good endocrinologist and if the endocrinologist rules out any harmone problem then they should go for a consultation with a psychologist.

Answer 2

Hmmm....a little more information would help me to answer with more clarity. As a wife with small children and a job it's hard to feel motivated just to get out of bed at times. Life is demanding, kids are demanding, job is demanding. Last thing we need is for the husband to be demanding too. In my situation it certainly helped when my husband decided to start sharing in all of the responsibilities normally delegated to wives - household chores, bathing the kids, cleaning up after dinner. Little gestures like that mean A LOT to a tired wife. It presents you as a partner rather than another thing to take care of and it shows you appreciate us as a person and not just a sex object. When some of the daily burden is lightened it not only allows for more free time for extra-curricular activites at night (wink wink) but puts you in a more positive light and makes you MUCH MORE attractive.

Answer 3

when your wife stops having interest in sex you better take a good look at what's going on around you. I'm "the wife" and nothing my husband says or does will make me motivated. I want someone else.

Answer 4

You guys must be busy! If she is working woman please find out if she is stressed out. Work place stresses are the most irritating. Give her a lot of support!

On weekends, tell her that you are ready to help and do it! Please dont sit down to watch TV and leave everything to her. Men are lazy fellows, they never open their eyes to see if their wifes need anything. A simple act of picking up your plate after food and washing it also works miracles with your wife, who has to do almost everything. If she notices you helping with even small things like folding the towel or putting clothes to dry/ or putting them in the machine can help her realise without you saying in that many words that you are trying to help her!

If she still does not respond, tell her to take a day off or kidnap her and take her out of town then ravish her! But be kind - let her know you want change things for her and not for yourself! Women think that men only want sex! So she may not respond!

If you have kids ask someone to take care of them for one day and continue on your trip! Dont pick up any controversial subjects and ask her not to also!

If she still does not respond, ask her if you have done something wrong! and say sorry if required! Or else you both will be out of it!

Answer 5

Maybe you don't try to please her enough. If a man pleases a woman in bed that's a good start to keeping a marriage good. Not everything but, very important. My husband is great in bed. That's one reason why we can't stay angry at each other very long. I'm a lucky woman. Try to make your wife feel lucky too.

Answer 6

hug her!!!! hold her close, facing her. kiss her like you did when you first met. long kisses that don't expect anything in return. she will be so fascinated by your selflessness, that she will fall in love with you all over again!!!
draw her a bath with candles, oil, scents, etc. and give it to her with no intentions see what happens
make her dinner, you pick up, clean up after the dishes, tuck her into bed and tell her "You got it honey!" watch how interested she is then! whatever you did to get her into bed the 1st time should work now too!

Answer 7

It could be hormones, stress or unhappiness. She should see a doctor for a physical, then, if nothing is wrong, go from there. Maybe a little couples therapy could help your relationship.

Answer 8

Try something new. First try someplace new. maybe the bedroom is causing the boredom. try and get out to a hotel or motel or something. change of scenarie can do a world of good.

Answer 9

The ruin up letter, God's digital mail and definition of spouse and mom have been in basic terms too stable. the next day morning the 1st element i could be doing ofcourse after brushing my tooth could be telling them to my friends! You deserve a great sort of stars! ok my character map isnt permitting me to repeat stars, so please alter with those hearts! ??????????????????????????????????????..... LOL God is known with how many thumbs down i'm going to get for this one! besides, Cheers! :) Rudra

Answer 10

There are both mental and physical factors responsible for causing frigidity in women. Low energy and emotional distraction forbid women from performing passionately in bed. This problem needs attention and appropriate treatment. Kamni capsules give effective results within short time and increase desire for sex naturally in women.