The girl I've been wanting has this friend...?

Question

Here's the scenario.
Me and this girl have liked each other for a few weeks now. Thing is, she has this friend John that is 3 years older (senior) . He has a history of hitting girls, treating them badly, and other bad things, but she is naiive to this and still hangs out with him. i try to ask her not to b/c i dont want her to get hurt but i think this is interferring because i know he wants to get with her. I don't know what to do about him and i want to know if you guys think i should handle this physically or just forget about both of them or another option

Thanks!

Answer 1

Who this girl hangs out with is really up to her. If you don't like it, you have 2 choices, get over it and maybe she will come to her senses, or go on with your on business and maybe she will come to her own senses. By trying to boss her into anything, is no better than what you say this other guy is doing. :o)

Answer 2

1. Ok tell her to get away from that guy because you care about her. Explain about what you heard. She might listen which would be great.

2. Stay close to her and show your male dominance and the guy might back off. Don't worry about him fighting you, if he has any integrity and civil manners he won't.

3. Last resort: If that lil son of a jackal ***** won't back off, start working out and consuming protein get mega ripped and thrash that guy around. Remember you can always threaten him before you beat his @ss to the ground.

Answer 3

Once you have let her know your concern, there is little else you can do. Getting physical is stupid...besides...you may get your a** kicked.
For now I suggest you put your focus on getting her to trust you. Then maybe you will gain more influence on her.

Answer 4

u cant do anything if she isnt with u...remember shes just a friend and its her choice...if she wants to get hurt then she will....