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the last 2weeks have been a night mare and i cant seem to wake up from it i feel like i am lost in this nightmare and in this night mare no heart no friends no feeling just the feeling of being lost

2006-10-15 18:19:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

with in two weeks i lost my place to live filed for the big D and cant get along with family and lost my job and my dog died and car broke down

2006-10-15 18:33:16 · update #1

cant find my heart anywhere

2006-10-15 18:33:46 · update #2

24 answers

SH*T no wonder you are feeling lost. You need to calm down which wont be easy !st of all do something to honor the passing of your pet, it will help. I saved another dog, but if that wont work then maybe give some time or money to a dog rescue. Then when you go to bed think of something that makes you happy. I try to start a day dream and sometimes it turns into a dream. Usually I don't remember my dreams then but at least it is not a nightmare. Feel better girl. As for divorce believe it or not it was the best thing that ever happened to me, but I would have never believed it when it happened. How did you lose your job? Lets hope this is the start of something wonderful better job, better relationship, better place to live. Again good luck!

2006-10-15 19:09:09 · answer #1 · answered by Cali Girl 5 · 0 1

Where are you Angle so we can come and try to help! Remember when you go through the darkness someone will be there to help show you the light! I hope that someone on here even will be able to reach out to you in a way that will make you feel that someone cares for you! Take good care of yourself! The glow of one small candle can make life much brighter! Now where is that fellow who was having lots of problems not long ago-you need each other! He had got a divorce -lost his car-his brother gave him one and he recked it! Things can get a person to feeling real low. But know that it won't last forever!

2006-10-15 18:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You are in the beginning stages of your downward spiral. Trust me you have just placed your foot in the door. Your nights are going to get long and your whole focus will just be to get through the night. You will seperate from yourself several times, you can find yourself feeling like you want to vomit your soul. Everything slows down and on extreme cases the only thing that keeps your mind to your body is pain. I won't even go into that one. Life becomes Surreal and meaningless, You Accept your fate and the long empty path of your life. Embrace your reality. No fear, No Joy, No sorrow. You are void of anything and it will last you the rest of your life.
There is a bottom you have not even come close, I would suggest turning back before its to late, Once it catches you, your hook, you'll fall like lead. Like Dante, "Abondon All Hope Ye Who Enters Here!" No phrase can be more fitting for the path you are about to walk. Turn back now you hav ebeen warned!

2006-10-15 18:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You've had three major life transitions: the big D, losing your dog, and losing your job. You're being overwhelmed by grief. This is a process that you can get through, just don't give up on yourself. Forget about people who don't know how to support you, turn to yourself and become your own best friend, and be there for yourself as you go through this dark passage. I know what I speak of, because I've suffered a lot of loss, and grieved aplenty. I'm a stronger, healthier person as a result. You can get through this. Believe in yourself.

2006-10-15 18:45:54 · answer #4 · answered by Chatelaine 5 · 0 0

Loneliness is hard to take and can cause depression
Try and get out find some thing you like after a whilem you start too a little better and have hope in your self that this is not going to last forever even talk to someone like your folk sure they don't know everything but they might have some thing to say that useful

2006-10-15 18:27:13 · answer #5 · answered by crazymanca7 2 · 1 0

You got here to this internet site for a reason so PLEASE do not pay attention to the rude non solutions of the Atheists. they are being very insensitive to your situation!communicate to your larger capability who ever which would be. Draw capability there. you are able to attempt natures drugs. Valerian Root can help with rigidity, so as which you will not sense like exploding! it could additionally help with sleep issues, Melatonin 3 may additionally grant help to to sleep greater effectual. Getting a physically powerful night sleep is considerable.St Johns Wart provides you help to with melancholy. those are all very much low-priced. treatment is likewise an option. If this unhappiness maintains. there isn't any shame in receiving treatment.Or spend time with acquaintances. choose for a experience out interior the rustic, examine self help books. i wish that somebody here provides you help to.stable luck!

2016-11-23 14:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by acebedo 4 · 0 0

Go to Real Rhapsody or some other site and pull up "Father Can You Hear Me" by Tamela Mann from the Diary of a Mad Black Woman soundtrack. Now if you are an atheist or something then you may remain in the dark.

He takes my pain away just because I believe in Him. Not for going to church every Sunday, shouting/jumping around, or quoting a bunch of Bible passages. Try it. Its worked for me.

2006-10-15 18:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by q8336b 2 · 0 0

We all feel this way sometimes. Just wait it will pass, remember you are the guiding light in your life. Happiness is inside you, sometimes if you say to yourself you are happy even if you are not but you go on pretending and acting happy then things will come to you. When it comes to dating have the I am busy but I will try and squeeze you in. You will have more offers than you know. When you feel lost and desperate your life becomes lost and desperate. Remember life is in the palm of your hand. Don't close it open it and live it happily

2006-10-15 18:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by lost_soul 4 · 0 0

Are you severely depressed or sad, or anxious? You really need to go see a counselor soon, or someone that can help you. Talk to a friend, family member, but don't isolate yourself dear. Loving hugs to you, and more hugs.

I pray that you are out of this predicament soon.
God bless you all the time and with much LOVE.

2006-10-15 18:28:01 · answer #9 · answered by Born Valentine's Day 5 · 0 0

Talking about it would be the first step. Sometimes I do that too. It just unnerves me for a long time. There are a few quotes in the Bible that will sooth you!! I'm not a Bible freak or a religious fanatic, but when I get that scared I pull it out.
If you don't know your way around the Bible like myself here is a link to the verses for different emotional support.

http://www.angelfire.com/on2/bowb4him/comforting_scriptures.htm

2006-10-15 18:22:26 · answer #10 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 2 0

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