Family & Relationships - 14 October 2006

i'm 18 years old and i am dating a 21 year old... i love to be affectionate (cuddling, holding hands, kissing) my b/f does like things things, but we are both virgins, and he is afraid if i go so far, we may forget to turn things off before it gets out of hand...
so therefor he avoids kissing me, hugging, etc... ITS ABOUT TO DRIVE ME INSANE... what is the point of dating if there ISN'T ANY AFFECTION AT ALL... i do care for this guy, or i would not have spent as long as i have with him...
what can i do to relax him so he will be more affectionate??
is there anything to avoid doing?
give me all possible anythings that are related to this plz... i will Be very very thankful...

oh yeah... im letting 20 days go... if i don't see anything, i'm gone...

2006-10-14 04:46:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know

2006-10-14 04:45:27 · 21 answers · asked by Kyle A 1 in Family

We are not as intimidating as we seem and we won't dog you out for approaching us.

2006-10-14 04:44:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but i love him n dont want to leave him n e advice?

2006-10-14 04:44:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-14 04:41:34 · 12 answers · asked by gongchan_gurl 1 in Singles & Dating

well one of my best friends says that she likes this guy and at first i told her that i wouldnt date him i would just mess around with him if even that. but well i recently just asked her if she still likes the guy and she told me well i dont like him anymore we dont even talk well that same day after i asked her that guy came up to me telling me that he's starting to like me.

2006-10-14 04:41:09 · 14 answers · asked by *POPCORN* 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 04:40:52 · 5 answers · asked by sk8erhjk 3 in Friends

If so let me know!

2006-10-14 04:40:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 04:40:23 · 11 answers · asked by Marvelous 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend has been together for 6 months and I just found out that he has been lying to me. He went out one night and said that he will stop by on his way home but he never came in. The next morning when I asked him he said he was with some friends, I then found out from his Friends that they were with 2 other girls. When I confronted him he said I am paranoid. We then went out and that same girls of that night were in the same club and they kept looking at each other...Does that not say something...A woman has a sixth sense yeeh? What should I do dump him or just ignore it....He has been acted a bit distant this week and kept breaking promises he makes.

2006-10-14 04:39:43 · 5 answers · asked by sexy chick 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well i am onley 14 i will be 15 soon but i am confused because well boys keep asking me out but they are just so imature and just when will they grow up and what should i do?.i feel like i will never find anyone..i know i am young but it bugges me my sister found a greait gut and he really likes her its just so unfair.

2006-10-14 04:39:15 · 10 answers · asked by Ashley C 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy who I like but he has a girlfriend. She will never love him like i love him but he is with her anyway. I want him to realize that other girls are out there who love him more than she does. I mean this girl was crying yesterday and ignored her boyfriend then when Will and I were walking and talkinfg she came up to him and started making out with him right in front of me even though she knows that I like him. he saw me in the hall and he was like are you ok because I was crying about it and I said no I am not fine. Then she came up again to him at the same time and started pulling this stuff again. What do you guys think i do about this girl. Thanks in advance for your help?

2006-10-14 04:38:26 · 6 answers · asked by diane976821 1 in Singles & Dating

Here's the deal. When my wife had our son, things were good at work with tons of OT. I told her that as long as we can afford it, she can be a stay home mom and I'd work over. He's now 4 and in day care, and the OT at work is gone. She got a PT job working five days a week and it did help. After awhile she decided she didn't like working and cut back to 3 days. I think she is being selfish and she thinks I am for asking her to work and ME not getting a 2nd job. She still spends like we have tons of cash, which we don't. It's really pushing me to leave her, but I know I'll get raked across the coals in a divorce. I'm tried talking to her about it, but she doesn't get it. Now what?

2006-10-14 04:37:59 · 27 answers · asked by kong-carrier 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im goin out wit diz guy n i really like him but he acting really weird and some1 told me that he likes someone else but he says its not true i dont know wat to think because peolple say all boys are players

2006-10-14 04:37:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i have a problem. i am bi. i want to tell my mom but i dont know how!i have been bi for 2 years and i havent told her help plez!i feel so bad not telling her!

2006-10-14 04:36:53 · 15 answers · asked by monkyz_r_pimp_59 2 in Family

It seems like most times I make new friends, they like my friend better than me, and end up ignoring me. My friend doesn't do it intentionally, but it always happens. I feel like I'm not good enough, pretty enough, smart enough or interesting enough, just a giant boring bore. Help?

I also have problems with my speech, appearance and self-confidence. What to do?

If I was another person I would definately have me as a friend!

2006-10-14 04:36:49 · 3 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Friends

The best thing to do sometimes is the hardest and painfullness and the worst thing to do the easiest?

2006-10-14 04:36:46 · 6 answers · asked by sweetsmile 2 in Friends

some people tell me as long as his personality is good
and some said why are you marrying a ugly guy, you can do better
well.........

2006-10-14 04:36:36 · 20 answers · asked by Tammy 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it still okay if we kiss and go out and stuff? Or is the age difference of concern?

2006-10-14 04:35:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-14 04:35:31 · 13 answers · asked by sub 1 in Singles & Dating

He's sort of a nerd and she's a cheerleader she could have any guy she wants? Should she date him?

2006-10-14 04:35:17 · 12 answers · asked by jesse lynn 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am not a big drinker and i dont understand people who drink for social occasions...it seems that there is no real connection with other people when everyones drinking....what do you think of this?

2006-10-14 04:34:53 · 4 answers · asked by echolily 3 in Friends

2006-10-14 04:33:10 · 14 answers · asked by Kyle A 1 in Family

A friend of mine is trying deperately to get his adult daughter out of the house. She's thirty something and hasn't worked for years. She just fritters away her time and freaks out when ever he even mentions working. No boyfriend or man in the picture either.

What is up with this? Do you know anyone like this? I always thought that this was an embarrassing way to live, but maybe times have changed?

2006-10-14 04:32:56 · 3 answers · asked by LanceMiller77 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

everytime my boyfriend comes over to my house he always spends it on the computer i've tried telling him it doesnt work or that i've had the internet disconnected but he always figures it out, its not like this when we're out together hes the most caring nicest guy ever but its reli starting to annoy me

2006-10-14 04:32:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in the interviewing stages and would like to be honest with the company.

2006-10-14 04:31:48 · 6 answers · asked by Ladyofthemidwest 1 in Family

2006-10-14 04:30:49 · 8 answers · asked by Lauren d 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 04:29:34 · 31 answers · asked by v í b o r a 3 in Singles & Dating

I need your help, see there's this friend of mine and a guy has been 'going out' but the problem is that he already has a girlfriend. He's always says he's going to break up with his girlfriend coz it's my friend that he wants to be with. She let him kiss her and i think she made a mistake. . .I don't know what to tell her, she's my friend and i don't want her to get hurt, but she says she likes him already. What if his gf finds out and my friend will be to blame?

2006-10-14 04:28:16 · 16 answers · asked by stargirl 3 in Singles & Dating

In Austria, we often use a Slogan of Latin origin: In vino veritas.
This means in wine lies the truth. To make it short: I once met a boy I formerly never noticed until we met us first 3 years ago. He told me that he has been absolutely falling in love with me since our first meeting and that he doesn’t get me out of his mind. He was a bit drunk at that evening because of relationship crises with his girlfriend, I guess. He is in a very long relationship!!!! Now, I don’t know what I should think about him respectively about what he said…. I am very confused!!…So what do you think, does truth really lie in wine or doesn’t it????

2006-10-14 04:27:12 · 14 answers · asked by Andrea 1 in Other - Family & Relationships