well one of my best friends says that she likes this guy and at first i told her that i wouldnt date him i would just mess around with him if even that. but well i recently just asked her if she still likes the guy and she told me well i dont like him anymore we dont even talk well that same day after i asked her that guy came up to me telling me that he's starting to like me.
2006-10-14 04:41:09 · 14 answers · asked by *POPCORN* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so now here you are finding yourself liking this guy. nothing wrong with that. i think that you should talk to your friend and tell her that you are beginning to like this guy and that he also likes you. and that you would like to go out with him but that she is your friend and you don't want to hurt her or lose her friendship,by going out with this guy. ask her if it would bother her in any way if you did. now remember one thing she might say no that wont bother me at all, but she is your friend so by now you should be able to read between the lines with her. so when she is telling you it wont bother her read her body language. it might be telling you something different. and if it does then don't go out with him. boyfriends will come and go but friends are forever. good luck
2006-10-14 05:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend if she'd be okay with it. If she is then by all means try just as long as there are no hard feelings between the two of them. I had this one girlfriend and we stopped seeing each other she pretty much left me hanging. Well she was making "eyes" at my best friend and he just shrugged her off and told me "After what she did to you i wouldn't even want to try. It's not worth it."
Now that's loyalty.
2006-10-14 11:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by sprydle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say it depends on alot of info, how long has it been since your friend dated him? How long did they actually date? And more importantly are they perhaps just having a little break? I f it has been a while since they went out, and they did not date for more than a few months i would say go for it. Your friend will only get mad if she is immature.
2006-10-14 11:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by Rebekah M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her again and tell her what he said. Be sure. You dont wanna mess up a friendship over a guy.
2006-10-14 11:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it, but then again im a guy so I might have a different perspective on it than you.
2006-10-14 11:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would ask your friend if she would be jealous. No friend is worth losing over some guy...
2006-10-14 11:43:54 · answer #6 · answered by softball_chic35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you know that you would be breaking the cardinal rule!!! He is still off limits.
2006-10-14 11:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by DaRkViXeN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what happended to true friendship??i am 37 y/o what is messing around??
2006-10-14 11:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by john s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy's come and go good friend's are forever which do you value most.
2006-10-14 11:54:20 · answer #9 · answered by carolyn g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely, life's too short, even if she did like him, it's his decision. if he likes you and you like him that's all that matters. if she's your friend she should be happy for you.
2006-10-14 11:44:26 · answer #10 · answered by jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋