We are not as intimidating as we seem and we won't dog you out for approaching us.
2006-10-14 04:44:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because those guys have no confidence.
I'm white and i've had one black girlfriend and two black ummfriends and found the two ummfriends to be as sociable and likeable as all get out. the one girlfriend though seemed to be intimidated by me sexually because she knows by reputation i have been with a lot of women but i told her that was "have been" which doesn't compare to "now with".
Everytime i'm at a club i talk and socialize with as many people as i possibly can i don't care what shade your skin is in we're all just different shades of brown.
2006-10-14 04:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by sprydle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is the way you are presented. Look at the TV, the movies, the news. What do you see? You see the loud mouthed, head bobbing black gal threatening someone. Then here comes the 300 lb. black guy to back her up. Statistically speaking, who is responsible for the greater amount of assaults in the US? Blacks. What guy would want to date black girl with the possibility of getting his head bashed in? What did we see on the news when Katrina hit? Blacks behaving badly! What do you expect from the other races? Those of us from the real world know that it is not a race thing, but a class thing. (Poor people reacting). But most people know only what they see on TV!
And we notice the loud and the aggressive more than the timid and relaxed. Your people are the only ones that can change this image. And only by not accepting this stuff from your people any more. And not taking it from the media, any more!
Good people are what they are, bad people are what they are. Black, white, brown or yellow.
I would be willing to bet that you are a good and nice person. Either relgious or middle or upper class.
2006-10-14 12:00:41 · answer #2 · answered by It All Matters.~☺♥ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
any women who know what she wants is intimidating to men no matter what the race is. As some men are just scared to approach a women afraid of rejection. We all want approval no matter what.
2006-10-14 11:48:07 · answer #3 · answered by magicallybeautiful10plus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that some guys give black women a bad rep due to some that they have met or seen. I have seen some beautiful black women that are very intelligent and almost appear shy and have the most beautiful smile and gorgeous eyes not mentioning all the curves in the right places lol
2006-10-14 11:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hi there ,
i believe anyone that is intimidated over a woman because of skin colour desrves to be!!.
people and skin colour is old hat people are people at the end of the day, and also black women are beautifull in most to all cases, so are white or yellow, brown etc ( no im not on heat !! lol)
2006-10-14 12:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by Adrian 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
BLK? Big Lesbian Kelptomaniacs?
Or did you mean black?
If so I have no problems approaching them, the same as I have no problems approaching males or females of any other race.
2006-10-14 11:47:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can be a little intimidating ~ I don't mean to be.
Intimidating to me is being smart, attractive, and independent. If someone is intimidated because of this, then obviously he isn't man enough to handle such a woman.
2006-10-14 11:47:18 · answer #7 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a stupid assumption and the truth is it's most of us aren't intimidating at all. It's just an excuse for being to scared to talk to us.
2006-10-14 11:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a lot of people are narrowminded and still look at skin color rather than the person.
2006-10-14 12:35:43 · answer #9 · answered by toyloy27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are prejudiced thats why
Some of them are
2006-10-14 11:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋