I need your help, see there's this friend of mine and a guy has been 'going out' but the problem is that he already has a girlfriend. He's always says he's going to break up with his girlfriend coz it's my friend that he wants to be with. She let him kiss her and i think she made a mistake. . .I don't know what to tell her, she's my friend and i don't want her to get hurt, but she says she likes him already. What if his gf finds out and my friend will be to blame?
2006-10-14 04:28:16 · 16 answers · asked by stargirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My friend knows about his girlfriend
2006-10-14 04:34:42 · update #1
She is as much to blame as the guy, tell your friend to stay away from guys that are involved unless she wants to end up with a guy that likes to fool around.
2006-10-14 04:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he already has a girlfriend, and he's merely 'playing' with you friend. If she cant see or understand when you try to tell her, then there's not much else that you can do. She will need to learn the hard, but best way, by getting hurt.
2006-10-14 11:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your friend she needs to lay down the law. She needs to tell him that he has one last chance to dump his other girlfriend if he wants to be with your friend. On the other hand maybe this guy is not even worth the effort if he treats his girlfriends like this. Who says he won't do that to your friend? Just let her know that you will be there for her no matter what she chooses to do. She can make up her own mind, even if you don't agree with it.
2006-10-14 11:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by DaRkViXeN 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your friend what you think. Better yet, ask the dude what his problem is. Your friend will be the one hurt, or the other girl. Her feelings matter as much as your friend's. One more thing: If you just aren't getting through to this guy, tell him "Harems went out of style with the Ancient Greeks." and leave.
2006-10-14 11:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by Redridinghood666 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is what she should do, First she needs to tell him to break up with her NOW,then if that still doesnt work have your friend find out girl #2's phone number and your friend break up with her for him and if that still doesn't work then cut him loose
2006-10-14 11:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by D Phi Boi 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well dear we all learn from our mistakes, but as a friend I would tell her the deal and let her take it from there. People are going to do whatever they want today regardless what other may think.
2006-10-14 11:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by juiceone 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its never a good idea to get involved with someone who is already involved with someone else. Eventually, someone will get hurt and you can be certain, it won't be him, but probably both girls. You friend also needs to remember that if he's cheating on his current gf, he will probably cheat on her too eventually. Already he is a liar...now why would anyone want to be with that?!?
2006-10-14 11:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by aerowrite 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All you can do is warn her, you can't make choices for her and leave it at that. Now you can do some stuff to him that will make him leave her alone. Your a girl figure it out. Good luck. Set him up.
2006-10-14 11:32:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your friend to find some other guy, there are alot of good guys in the world
2006-10-14 11:37:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to break it off with his gf TODAY, or else your telling your friend first thing tomorrow morning.
2006-10-14 11:31:26 · answer #10 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋