Am I paranoid????? Should I dump him????

Question

Me and my boyfriend has been together for 6 months and I just found out that he has been lying to me. He went out one night and said that he will stop by on his way home but he never came in. The next morning when I asked him he said he was with some friends, I then found out from his Friends that they were with 2 other girls. When I confronted him he said I am paranoid. We then went out and that same girls of that night were in the same club and they kept looking at each other...Does that not say something...A woman has a sixth sense yeeh? What should I do dump him or just ignore it....He has been acted a bit distant this week and kept breaking promises he makes.

Answer 1

It sounds like something I once went through. I don't think you are being paranoid. I would personally leave the relationship. Once this kind of behaviour starts, it keeps going. Don't put up with it, you are worth so much more than that.

Answer 2

Honey you are not paranoid. On the contrary. It's just like you said woman do have a sixth sense

You two have to sit down and talk things openly with no secrets.

If he's not intrested in you anymore. Let him go

Answer 3

first of all if you except the fact that he lied to you, you are leaving yourself wide open for him to lie to you again and again. because you are giving him permission to. don't allow anyone to lie to you, i think that you need to break up with this guy. it is obvious he is not ready to be in a relationship. you can do better than that.

Answer 4

i would bring you and his two female friends together and have an orgy with them. If you cant beat them, you might as well join them

Answer 5

your not paranoid he didnt stop by cause he was dippin in some one else that night.....