ok well i am onley 14 i will be 15 soon but i am confused because well boys keep asking me out but they are just so imature and just when will they grow up and what should i do?.i feel like i will never find anyone..i know i am young but it bugges me my sister found a greait gut and he really likes her its just so unfair.
2006-10-14 04:39:15 · 10 answers · asked by Ashley C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're only fourteen, give it time. Boys are immature at that age, that's just the way it is. Give them time to mature, they will probably right before your eyes. Don't start going out with older guys, like college age guys. Just don't do it. They're only there for one thing, find someone about your age who cares about you. Be patient, the good guys are out there.
2006-10-14 04:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by brambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course those boys are immature. They're only 14 (maybe 15). I'm not saying that you are immature also, but at 14 you shouldn't be worried about finding the right guy just yet. You say you feel like you'll never find anyone? Keep in mind that you are in fact, only 14 years old and you've got a lot of years for that to happen. Stick with concentrating on your education for the time being.
2006-10-14 04:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by ticktock 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll find that you will be more mature than guys throughout your whole life...not just now. Remember that you are really young (even though you may not feel like it) and you have plenty of time to find someone. Its okay to be picky...in fact - be picky! Its your life. Also remember that you do not have to be with anyone. There's nothing wrong with you if you don't have a boyfriend, whether by choice or circumstance. Just look at Queen Elizabeth I!
2006-10-14 04:43:09 · answer #3 · answered by aerowrite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way to young to be thinking about a long term relationship with any guy. The only "mature" guy you are gonna find would probably go to jail for dating you. My advice, don't worry about finding a partner now. Use your time to do well in school, hang with your friends, get a part time job. That way you don't have to worry about pleasing anyone other than yourself. Like the pepsi commercial says...Be Young, Have Fun, Drink Pepsi
2006-10-14 04:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by King 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always keep this in mind when you're not sure what to do- is he the kind of guy you would marry? if not, don't even go on the first date. and being that you're only 14, you have plenty of time to find the right one:) hang in there
2006-10-14 04:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by cupcake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, hold your horses. You have TIME. Second, if guys your age are dweebs, try a grade older. Or travel. Go to meetings of people with similar interests to you, and you'll be surprised who you'll find.
2006-10-14 04:43:01 · answer #6 · answered by Redridinghood666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every teenager is immature, I am sure that eventually you will find a good guy just like your sister did. Be patient.
2006-10-14 04:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by buddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your only 15 don't rush things i say go out and have fun enjoy yourself and don't worry about love right now. Im pretty sure u have lots of male friends you can goout with just to have fun.
2006-10-14 04:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by serestmar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough, guys just mature much slower than girls, maybe go for somebody a couple of years older for a while.
2006-10-14 04:41:29 · answer #9 · answered by Spudders 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't worry the time will come for you - there a person designed for everyone focus on education and life will bring your guy
2006-10-14 05:47:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋