2006-10-14 04:35:31 · 13 answers · asked by sub 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi there, maybe your not into him sexually, that or your going through a rough patch emotionally? that has caused stress, over worked? if you a being effected by a stress-or of this nature this will pass, if you address it with a professional,,,,,
But if you don't have any stress and you just couldn't be bothered
tell him, communicate!!, " there is an old saying when it's dead in the bedroom the relationship is a dead issue realistically" because one scenario is he will over a period of time look for sex elsewhere that or you will? either side not a good outcome !!.
give him he opportunity to move on because you are also depriving yourself of intimacy and happiness that you and he both deserve,,,, even it is with different partners
good luck.
2006-10-14 04:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by Adrian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why you are never in the mood for sex and address the problem. Sex is one of the greatest things that one can do in life. If you're never in the mood for sex, then you are depriving yourself of one of the best previliges of being healthy and alive.
2006-10-14 04:39:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Main Event 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sometimes were just not in the mood, so you could do it for him, a quickie, a BJ, hand job or something, and who knows when you start you may gain the mood and end up enjoying it too.
2006-10-14 05:16:01 · answer #3 · answered by Sara_V. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him do all kinds o0f things to turn u on. i'm often not in da mood 4 sex but once me and my bf get to kissin an touchin an stuff i'm ready 2 go.
2006-10-14 04:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by 1 Hott Mami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have more sex with him, try hypnosis to get yourself in the mood.
Maybe you need to rethink the relationship or what your mother told you about sex.
2006-10-14 04:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your future must be planed. Ask him why did he say you are not attracted to him? I am sure it is not because of sex.
2006-10-14 04:41:57 · answer #6 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are not in the mood for sex and you are not ready for it jyst explain it to him he'll understand
2006-10-14 04:40:16 · answer #7 · answered by mia_janelle20 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds a little immature and self centered. A relationship is not only about him, it is about two people. He needs to be more understanding of your feelings.
2006-10-14 04:39:56 · answer #8 · answered by buddy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him that you really love him but your just not ready 4 it.
2006-10-14 04:52:12 · answer #9 · answered by puppypal710 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start wearing cloths that show more of your "natural figures" around him if u know what i mean!!!!
good luck with sex with him!!
2006-10-14 04:38:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋