everytime my boyfriend comes over to my house he always spends it on the computer i've tried telling him it doesnt work or that i've had the internet disconnected but he always figures it out, its not like this when we're out together hes the most caring nicest guy ever but its reli starting to annoy me
2006-10-14 04:32:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be naked and give him lots of sex.
2006-10-14 04:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you guys should try going out, rather than inviting him to your house. I know it is annoying when your boyfriend stays on computer for a long time, because mine spends a lot of time on computer games.
You have to tell him that you want him to pay you attention, and you are not feeling happy that he spends all the time on the net when you are together. However, you can not cut him off from the net completely, even though he may have to agree to spend less time on computer, you have ot compromise that he uses it sometimes. You can't force him after all. He needs to learn how to spend time with you not with the computer but, you also have to learn how to let him be sometimes.
2006-10-14 04:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by ono 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't. the secret is to get him to want to spend more time with you! Next time you feel neglected - instead of rushing headlong in to his open arms, leave him a message to say your not in, you're busy with your friends (You must have your own friends - vitally important!) he'll soon be scratching his head, wondering where the heck you've gone and wondering why suddely you are more interested in them than him. Makes him realise prehaps he isn't the centre of your universe, after all! If he doesn't make more of an effort - at least you know he's not that bothered about you and you can leave him with some dignity, before he neglects you once too often!
2006-10-14 04:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's very rude to be spending time on the computer when you are in someone else's company, especially when they are a guest in your house. He is treating you with disrespect. If you are not going out, then cook a nice meal and get a film in, or suggest you go out. If he doesnt get the message and some decent manners, then ditch him. Would you want to live with someone sat on his **** in front of the computer all the time instead doing things together?
2006-10-14 04:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by Thia 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if i were u i would tell him striaght out whats up. give him a piece of ur mind. and when/if u do make sure u add a lil attitude but dont get bitchy. tell him how it makes u feel when he comes to ur house to spend time on the computer instead of u. im sure he'll understand or at least think about what hes doin.
2006-10-14 04:48:19 · answer #5 · answered by smalls8802 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the fuse out of the plug of his computer!
2006-10-14 04:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by DikiDoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him, its obvious to the world barring you, he's just not interested in you. Go out and find someone who wants YOU not your computer, get a life girl!!!!
2006-10-14 04:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hide the connection before he comes over that will stop him from going on it....or why don't you play with him find a two player game as they say if you can't beat them join them
good luck
2006-10-14 04:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by .â?¢Â°*â?¥.Shall.â?¥*°â?¢. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either get rid of boyfriend or computer.
2006-10-14 04:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by tracy d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him straight or ask him what he is doing on the computer
2006-10-14 04:35:56 · answer #10 · answered by veronica 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sit on the computer.
2006-10-14 04:47:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋