Noone likes me how do i draw attention to boys please dont make it trashy?

Answer 1

Be more outgoing and nice to people.

Answer 2

I think it's very normal to want attention from the opposite sex. There is nothing wrong with this, but I am wondering why
it is bothering others.
Perhaps it's the way that you are doing it?
Remember, you don't have to dress like a tart to get a guy's attention? Dressing sexy will get any guys attention no matter what you look like.
If you want to dress like this for attention then go ahead but if it bothers you - that it bothers others, then maybe you need to change.

I am wondering, do you draw attention because you are feeling
somewhat empty or scared they will reject you?

Somehow I feel you really want a special guy and to be loved and accepted for who you are but you do this to avoid some type of pain.

I hope you find what you are truly looking for.
If you don't want to get a bad reputation, try working on some of your inner skills, like self-esteem and self respect.
I wish you well!!

Answer 3

Be yourself and be positive -- just because you do not feel like any one is paying you any attention does not mean that there are not any. Who knows? You may even have an admirer out there just biding his time, working up the courage to ask you out.

And, while looking presentable is always good, don't obsess on your physical attributes. The only things that really matter in a person are their character and their values and morals. Keep those in check, because they will end up attracting the right kinds of people, the ones who will care about you for who you really are.

Answer 4

A flirty glance and smile is not trashy... a subtle hello with some eye contact is not trashy... to draw attention to yourself you must deal with the first impression factor... wear your hair differently
every other week etc...

Answer 5

First, figure out why is it that no one likes u.
If it's that important to u then make changes.
Never try too hard to make anyone like u, it's too transparent; they'll see right through you. Maybe, u can update ur wardrobe and hair, remember, classy and not trashy.
Good Luck.

Answer 6

Just be yourself.... you'll find the right guy one day. You shouldn't have to change yourself or pretend to be someone your not to get other people attention. I am guessing your young and still in school- well don't worry as time goes on you'll leave those people behind and move on to newer and better thing...
Plan on meeting your husband in Paris.... and not worry about the boys now...

Answer 7

Just be yourself. I was like that when I was younger. Now that I am older more men notice me because of my personality. Personality means everything. Make sure you smile more, converse with them, become their friend. Hang out with them when they are hanging out. In the beginning men use to think I was stuck up but when they got to know me, they loved hanging out with me. I had loads of fun. Oh, most important try to look cute all of the time. It worked for me.......Smile......Good Luck

Answer 8

Just be yourself, the more eager you seem to be noticed the less notice people will take into you. People tend to want people that don't need anyone to make them feel special, as oppose to those that come off as desperate.