Family & Relationships - 13 October 2006

Here is the deal I have worked with this guy for four years (part time job only work 25 days a year, he owns the company) I am attracted to him. Three years ago I went in to work on Christmas Eve and we spent the whole evening alone talking and really getting to know each other. Felt like a good first date. Finally a few months later decided to ask him out in a around about way (asked him to give me some golf pointers) He said he couldn't because he was seeing someone, they later got engaged but that is off now. Since his engagment broke off last year he has seemed really attracted to me, makes excuses to talk to me, come see me at work when I am there, rubs my neck, jokes around. We have had a couple situations where we have fought like cats and dogs at work, mainly because we are too much alike, but we always make up, we even had to have one on ones after each shift, because he said I never come see him anymore. I did do that and looked forward to it. What should I do.

2006-10-13 06:55:11 · 4 answers · asked by Safety Girl 3 in Singles & Dating

iv been taking random drug test , to get my kids back, iv stayed away from everybody that smokes weed,ex well i got drunk and some jackass handed me a joint i know im a big girl and shouldnt have done this im not sure what i was thinking, i dont remember any of it,iv quit drinking as well,BUT....i need to know how i could pass this drug test; i dont have a credit card so if its something to buy i need to know what store, please i have alot to loose. i am a great mom and i should get them back if my test are clean PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-13 06:54:46 · 7 answers · asked by stcgoodman 1 in Friends

I have a BF that lives with me. I have friend that is a lot like a sugar daddy but we are strictly just friends. My friend (*Bob*) gave me money to pay my rent for the year ($12,000) I told my BF about it and he said cool. Well since than he keeps throwing it in my face that *Bob* did this for me and asks me if I have talked to him since than. I told him no because I don't want it thrown in my face. When really I have talked to him on the phone, emailed and had lunch with him occasionally. My BF found out yesterday that this was going on and now is saying that I cheated on him. *Bob* has done so much for me over the last 6 months that I didn't want to lose *Bob* as a friend so I just kept him a seceret. Am I wrong for that. Everything *Bob* has done has benifitted my BF as well so I am thinking I am doing a good thing for my man and making life a little easier for both of us. What do you think???? Not to mention my BF has lied about girls that didn't benifit me or him.

2006-10-13 06:53:01 · 21 answers · asked by HappyMama 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-13 06:52:25 · 13 answers · asked by s_shumail 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend and me are fighting, here's y: I asked her for my other friends # which i had lost and she said no i said y she said b.c. i dont want to i said well whatever, i now found out that the girl whos # i needed is in the hospitial and now im not talkin to my other friend who wouldnt give me the #, shes sayin things like well i didnt have to give it to her, i didnt do anything, all i aked was for someones # and she said no, it got my really mad, now all our friends are mad at one another, im not apologizing, or should i, WHAT DO I DO!! When i asked her for the # she was like no i was like why she was like b.c. i dont give other peoples #'s out, i was like 1 im her friend and already had it, i just lost it and 2, if you needed a # id give it to u she was like well to bad i was like ur just jelouse cuz u want to call her first she was like No, well truns out she already called her by the time i got home from school, i think its her fault we are fighting, tell me whos wrong

2006-10-13 06:51:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I want to ask out a girl that I have been running into "by accident" on her way back home after grad school (we're both grad school students, different depts that have 0 interaction) today is a friday.... do I say to her "Hey ! any plans for today.... have you been to the .....(she hasn't for sure, she;s been here for just a month) how abt we go?" get those answers in quick, guys..... i dont have much time.

2006-10-13 06:51:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I remember when cheating was consider as having sex with someone other than your spouse. Y is that society now have made up this (emotional cheating).I personally think that , If a spouse have a friend of the opposite sex, that he has not told his or her spouse about is not cheating, It will however cause a lot problem in the marriage.How do u feel about this?

2006-10-13 06:51:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-13 06:50:20 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

u look around and they all do dope or they have no cent what happen did they all get dum

2006-10-13 06:48:20 · 24 answers · asked by edroglar 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 06:48:10 · 16 answers · asked by Natalia P 1 in Singles & Dating

I just want help from whoever can give it. We have had a little fights between each other on different things. I want to know if I have put my relationship in jeopardy and what I should do about it.

2006-10-13 06:48:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just curious to know why as i know she loves me very much
do you think that she is still insecure as she has been used so many times in the past

2006-10-13 06:48:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why would a girl who thinks you attractive, nice n fun still say shed have to think about dating you, in other words "maybe" what else is there?

2006-10-13 06:47:58 · 14 answers · asked by ikthes 1 in Singles & Dating

While I was at work I was helping a guy with his paperwork. I ask him what is your name he said “Chris”. So I began to write C-H-R. He stop me and said “no you STUPID ****** Chris with a “K”’ how would you handle that because I wanted to break his legs.

2006-10-13 06:47:31 · 34 answers · asked by c b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This woman(41) got inmediatly involve with a married man(43) who was divorcing since he cheated on his wife.She invited him to move in with her with the excuse of charing expenses .They got in hot and heavy to the point he forgot about his kids at all. Then she got pregnant during the first months of the divorce process(need to add that the guy is in a terrible finantial nighmare he owe $ and don't pay etc.) . the guy did many low things to his family to the point of totally disengaging himself from his kids and all .All this concentration of heavy duty dessitions where made within a few months tops. Is this one of those rebound type of things.The guy is my co worker and I think that what he did to his kids was wrong but he listen to no one. Is it rebound ?will it last? Also the woman did everything posible to gett him away from his fam.and when he abandom them he did't even say good bye to his kids. Loooooow

2006-10-13 06:47:23 · 9 answers · asked by free@last 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think they're both equally cute.

2006-10-13 06:47:17 · 10 answers · asked by Ricky 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 8 years now. Over a period of time he has lost interest in trying new stuff. Sex has become routine and boring.

2006-10-13 06:47:05 · 16 answers · asked by era 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-13 06:46:36 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my girlfriend and i just broke up, before thebrake up she was not as affectionate as she was in the beggining and now that we are split she is so amazing... a keep trying to sleep in the spare bedroom but she always say "oh thought you would want to sleep with me?" i'm moving out and i just want to try and make this not hurt so much for myself ... what are your thoughts

2006-10-13 06:45:46 · 6 answers · asked by goretti c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-13 06:45:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Women objectify themselves in general it is unfortunate. The media puts women in certain categories and most women tend to allow themselves to follow the lead of what is popular. It would be a great day if most women could stand up and say I am not an object for anyone's amusement entertainment or viewing pleasure I am a person of strong charater and will be myself.

And do you think porn also plays a role, as far as the media? This is for a class assignment.

2006-10-13 06:45:37 · 11 answers · asked by Green Tea Happy 3 in Singles & Dating

i dumped my boyfriend for someone else so he made up a lie about the other guy and now the other guy wants nothin to do wit me and my ex wants to cling onto me every single minute, but i don't want him to cause this is all his fault. What should I do about this???? Technically i'm single but my ex just won't get that through his mind.

2006-10-13 06:44:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend is a girl (i'm a guy) and we get on great, but some days in school we dont even talk. We are both 15 if that matters, and there have always been rumors flying around about us. Today for example, I only talked to her during the last 3 classes, before that we barely said hi. Also, the thing is that when we do talk she seems to be more honest with me, like if I ask her how she is she will tell me if she isnt feeling great (whereas with most other people she will just say fine or something). So, why do we not talk at all so often? With other girls whom arent as good friends with me, I can joke and mess with whenever I see them, but with her it is only if an actual conversational chance comes up, like if we are standing in the same group. (We don't just shout out hi to each other from accross the room--which I would with other people) Despite this she is my best friend, but I am just wondering why it is awkward sometimes.

2006-10-13 06:44:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, to get a look at my "highly innapropriate" clothes:
www.myspace.com/
tired_of_moving

Several people told me yesterday she was going aroudn saying my clothes were ugly&offensive, and I aprechate that. Are they really that bad and is my profile "BS?"
And how can I keep my grandmother off my profile?

2006-10-13 06:43:33 · 9 answers · asked by He See My Tears, He Saw Me Cry 1 in Family

2006-10-13 06:43:21 · 11 answers · asked by Mike S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Basically, I want to know what not to do when talking to a girl or e-mailing a girl that I'm interested in.

2006-10-13 06:42:38 · 32 answers · asked by joshooog 2 in Singles & Dating

how successful can it be???

2006-10-13 06:42:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

you guy may say that i dont love him any more but i do it dat i been wit him for 5 year and i think it time 2 move on his alway in jail and i cant take it any more im only 17 i can do better what should i do

2006-10-13 06:41:59 · 21 answers · asked by lachica1232005 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm getting married tommorow, and was planning to wear my grandmother's string of ivory pearls with my wedding dress. My mother-in-law gave me a beautiful sterling silver cross and said that she would be honored if I would wear it. My mother was a bit hurt when I told her of the gift, and said that she thought the pearls alone would be best. The pearls do go with my dress better. I am thinking of trying to wear them together, but they don't look all that great together. :( One option I was also considering was wearing the cross as an anklet, as it does look very nice alongside my shoes.

I'm not sure exactly how to handle this without hurting either one of them, and lately, my mother says she has felt sort of like my fiance's mother is trying to take care of everything that she had been wanting to help with.

2006-10-13 06:41:39 · 19 answers · asked by Souris 5 in Weddings

as soon as possible and feasible". Marriage is not any worth, if two persons have to keep making efforts to keep it kindling.

2006-10-13 06:40:33 · 6 answers · asked by mann54 2 in Marriage & Divorce