My best friend is a girl (i'm a guy) and we get on great, but some days in school we dont even talk. We are both 15 if that matters, and there have always been rumors flying around about us. Today for example, I only talked to her during the last 3 classes, before that we barely said hi. Also, the thing is that when we do talk she seems to be more honest with me, like if I ask her how she is she will tell me if she isnt feeling great (whereas with most other people she will just say fine or something). So, why do we not talk at all so often? With other girls whom arent as good friends with me, I can joke and mess with whenever I see them, but with her it is only if an actual conversational chance comes up, like if we are standing in the same group. (We don't just shout out hi to each other from accross the room--which I would with other people) Despite this she is my best friend, but I am just wondering why it is awkward sometimes.
2006-10-13 06:44:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is an awkward time in general. The fact that you are not always talking so much doesn't mean that she doesn't care about you. But with rumors flying around and such she may be concerned about sending out the wrong messages. Also, while you may be her best friend she may also want to devote some time to other friends.
Try not to let the off days get you down. Every relationship has it's ups and downs. If she is as good a friend as you say (and I don't doubt that she is) things will smooth out over time.
2006-10-13 06:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by danl747 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋