why would a girl who thinks you attractive, nice n fun still say shed have to think about dating you, in other words "maybe" what else is there?
2006-10-13 06:47:58 · 14 answers · asked by ikthes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just don't know what might be going on in her world. Once you let her know you are interested, it is up to her to make the next move. Let her know you want her, but you won't wait forever for her to make up her mind.
2006-10-13 06:49:38 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She has most likely been really hurt, and don't know if she is ready for a guy in her life again or not. Give her time, whats your rush? If you really like this girl and want to date her, you will give her the space she has asked for to think about dating you. Giveing her the time to *decide* without going on and dating someone else....... will actually work to your favor, But, if you are not that *into* her, then so be it. Go find someone else to date. Blessed be....................
2006-10-13 13:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probally has things to sort through. I have canceled date on 'hotties' in the past. If you are missing something she is looking for and she has been in a situation and doesn't want to have the past repeat. She is careful on who she dates. Not a bad quality to have.
So I'm guessing it's driving you crazy, it could also be playing hard to get, we want men to chase after us. Suprise her with flowers, it's old fashion, but heart melting and tell her you were thinking of her.
2006-10-13 13:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is doing a credit check on you, police data bank check, asking daddy or mommy, asking all her girlfriends and waiting for the right phase of the moon.
Just show up around with your sister or female cousin and act like your taking her out. She will either bite or move on.
2006-10-13 14:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by kellring 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the issue is not you. Maybe she is shy from being hurt in the past or just realizes that at this time in her life she does not want a relationship. Good Luck!
2006-10-13 13:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by sjl6987 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it has something to do with your education and ability to form a sentence correctly. I'm sure she's not looking to produce stupid offspring as you surely suggest to her. But, if you still wish to woo her, try flashing some cash around her. She'll rule that money out weighs the stupid offspring problem.
2006-10-13 13:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by hangin8_2005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are good friends then she's probably weighing the risks of losing that friendship if you date. Most women would rather have a friend she can always count on than a boyfriend that could break her heart.
2006-10-13 13:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
she could be playing hard to get...Just give her space..leave her be. Check in every now and then...maybe when she thinks ur slippin away she'll give in...Or it could be she's heard some things about you..If she didn't flat out say no..it's on her mind. So you have chance..Dont give up..thak u come again.
2006-10-13 13:49:55 · answer #8 · answered by NVR UNDRESTM8 KARMA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she thinks you maybe crazy
2006-10-13 13:51:50 · answer #9 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that will vary on her age, because maybe she is not looking fun only. do you really know her?
2006-10-13 13:52:29 · answer #10 · answered by Ingrid D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋