Family & Relationships - 13 October 2006

why am i fighting to live if im just living to fight?
why am i trying to see when there is nothing in sight?
why am I trying to give when no one gives me a try?
why am i dying to live if im just living to die?

2006-10-13 14:34:22 · 1 answers · asked by ilovekbfalwaysnforever 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well the other day at school i was waiting for my boy friend and i saw him with my best friend at the corner of the building and i ran in the girls bath room and i practicly skipped all my classes and this just happend on thursday PLEASE help me i dont know what to do brake up with my boyfriend or loose my relation ship with my best friend

2006-10-13 14:34:15 · 24 answers · asked by danielle! 1 in Singles & Dating

Ever since my mom found out that my boyfriend was BLACK, my mom has hated me and worst of all she shows it and it makes me feel terrible. She calls me names and pushes me she won't beat me becasue she knows i'll call the cops on her. She yells at me for no reasons...so basically i'm on my own. She won't let me do anything and my dad dosen't love me either he tells me all the time he sent me to boot camp 3 times and i've been to three different boarding schools. they give my brother all the attention and he rubs it in m face. No one at school wants to be my friend because they think i'm a rich spoiled brat and i feel real suicidal right now!!!!!!!!!!! so plz help me what shuld i do?!

2006-10-13 14:34:14 · 19 answers · asked by LiZZIE 1 in Family

2006-10-13 14:34:08 · 1 answers · asked by Svyatoslav G 1 in Friends

Im the younger sibling of 2 girls and im always compared to my sister whatever i do she can do better and i feel a second rate version of my sister what should i do?

2006-10-13 14:33:40 · 3 answers · asked by Grammar B*@%h 4 in Family

2006-10-13 14:33:28 · 17 answers · asked by Mark 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Who already has a child, they ALWAYS put the oldest child first and give them everything they want but when the new child NEEDS something, the spoiled brat's wants gotta be taken care of first? Am I the only one going through this? I have a son by this guy who has a 7 year old daughter who lives up north. She calls and tells him what she want ( material things) and he breaks his neck to send them to her when my son NEEDS things and I have to ask him 500 times before I get it. I have a 6 week old son who needs pampers, formula, sleepers, etc. Shouldn't NEEDS come before WANTS??

2006-10-13 14:32:12 · 5 answers · asked by tantalizin1 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

For 3 years I've been honlding on ...Now that my wife is with another man she still saying that she loves me but she still having sex and seeing this other person ..for almost 3 years....I've been holding for that long..but now every time i see her i feel pain and i feel anger, upset ....I feel numb inside me.

2006-10-13 14:31:40 · 36 answers · asked by LOST IN THE MIST 1 in Marriage & Divorce

people keep calling me metro. Does it have anything to do with dressing well? If so, what is wrong with guys dressing well?

2006-10-13 14:31:33 · 7 answers · asked by jset1989 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 14:30:57 · 3 answers · asked by CINDY L B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

it's not that I blame them, but I am trying to be obedient to God's word, which forbids lust and fornication

2006-10-13 14:30:48 · 34 answers · asked by NONAME 2 in Singles & Dating

I know if you love something set it free. If it comes back to you its yours but if it doesnt it never was.I'm just finding it very hard to let go of our past.I just know in my heart & soul he still loves me.We weregoing to be married but he said he could not handle being locked up and worrying about me.He said he loved me too much.Now, he married to someone that can give him the money and security he wants.Am I the dumb one here?

2006-10-13 14:29:41 · 3 answers · asked by angelicsunrise 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-13 14:28:23 · 2 answers · asked by in need 1 in Family

2006-10-13 14:27:49 · 65 answers · asked by 5431 1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of 3 years proposed last week. YAY! We are seriously considering going to Las Vegas to tie the knot sometime in the spring. I guess my question is...can anyone tell me ANYTHING about their experience (or someone they know) getting married in Vegas?

2006-10-13 14:27:02 · 11 answers · asked by Kat 6 in Weddings

This question is sort of directed at married folk, but feel free to answer even if you're not. People say you should save yourself for marriage because when you have sex you lose a part of yourself. Is this true? Does anyone in a loving marriage now regret having sex with someone else before their marriage? Or is saving yourself for marriage more like buying a car without test driving it first? I have a pretty strong opinion on this myself, but I'm not married, nor have I had sex, and I was curious if there is any truth to what people say about the sacredness of sex.

2006-10-13 14:26:36 · 41 answers · asked by deepwaters05 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been dating this girl for a while
i really do love her
but other guys tell her they love her all the time
in one instance a guy said that she was playing him, he was just a backup plan, and she didn't really love him and he hoped she was happy with me because she ruined something really special
she said that he took something she said the wrong way
and her homecoming is tomorrow
she didn't tell me
her friend told me
and she's a cheerleader...so i guess according to tradition cheerleaders go with football players..i wouldn't know cause my school doesn't have homecoming, but she didn't tell me when it was or the fact that she had a date becasue she "thought i wouldn't wanna know"
and what are some other signs

2006-10-13 14:26:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to be on the short leash, and have to do as I'm told.
Is this wrong?

2006-10-13 14:26:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok. i'm 12 almost 13. I have a gf. We have been together since june 15. I've never kissed any1 before and i want to kiss my gf. I'm pretty sure she wants to kiss me too but idk where the heck i can kiss her. I was thinking about kissing her wen we were slow dancing, but we don't have another dance for a month. Do u think it would be ok? Either way any ideas where i could kiss her? it cna't be at her house or after school. Where did u have ur first kiss? thx.

2006-10-13 14:26:06 · 4 answers · asked by ski racer 2 in Singles & Dating

My 5th grade daughter has 5 of here friends over and it is very loud, should I go hide?

2006-10-13 14:25:20 · 25 answers · asked by Notta 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Also, I would like to have more female friends. I'm not tryin to get a "stable", if you will, but I like having girls that are friends because of two reasons. First and most important, they're easier to talk to about stuff that you can't talk to your son about. Second, fellas admit this, they could help me stay fly, no lie, you know this. I'm not even gonna front, I used have low self-worth. But now, I just can't figure women out. Any help out there?

2006-10-13 14:25:11 · 7 answers · asked by jajais4u 2 in Singles & Dating

I really dont want to start dating again because I love her so much but Im not really sure if she is comeing back. When me and her started dating we had some problems but we worked it out and now I love her so much I dont know what I would do with out her. she is the best thing that ever happend to me. what do I do????????

2006-10-13 14:24:06 · 14 answers · asked by ilovekbfalwaysnforever 1 in Singles & Dating

I might have wasted money during our marriage,when we refinanced they were paid,now we're divorcing and its come up that the money was wasted and my spouse wants it to be judged against me in settlement,is it her burden of proof to show it was wasted or my burden to show where it went?I dont remember spending that money,does that matter?She's going to show bills with nothing to show for them and I dont know what to do.We live in Md. and were married 161/2 yrs.Whats going to effect this?

2006-10-13 14:23:59 · 8 answers · asked by just me!!! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i think am getting braces coz one of ma teeth sucks.
i personally woulnd't want them , but since it's the only option.
girls would you date a black boy with braces or would be embarassed to?

2006-10-13 14:23:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 14:22:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so i have a best friend. and about a month ago she started ignoring me at school and only talking to me at night on the phone, so i started ignoring her, which i shouldnt have done but i dont like fighting with people in public or anywhere for that matter. Anyhow, she started hanging out with me again but at ball games she NEVER talks to me and somehow she says i dont talk to her, but how could i i mean she sits with people she knows i dont fit in with for a guy whom she likes i would never do that, and so this week i was like i am not going to the ball game. This afternoon i was mean but i thought she deserved it after all she had done to me except to day it was like i was the mean one, but i'm shy and sweet and quiet, and i was trying to prove a point to her that i was not a pushover, anyhow she couldnt go to the game unless someone went w/ her, and i refused, so until like 7 she was pissed, and left this mean msg on my phone, and then i call to say sory and she @ was @ the ga

2006-10-13 14:21:55 · 12 answers · asked by a 3 in Friends

he smiles at me ,in gym he sit really close to me
he always say hi and bye

2006-10-13 14:21:32 · 12 answers · asked by WILD 4 RKO 5 in Singles & Dating

What should I do?

2006-10-13 14:21:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does anyone no how to capture sylvie on film on millsberry.com

2006-10-13 14:20:46 · 3 answers · asked by tyanakababy 2 in Weddings

I'm pretty happy in my 7yr marraige but I'm UNhappy with our sex life. I feel he's selfish and have tried to talk to him about giving me more attention, but he says he doesn't know what to do for me. I've given him some pointers, but they don't help too much. We've talked about it in the past (while fighting and also in a calm open discussion), but I'm still always left hanging. Sessions only last about 15min INCLUDING foreplay, and it's mostly ME helping HIM out. It's been so bad that one time, he finished w/o even entering me and I wasn't even wet yet; I actaully went crazy (sorry if it's too much info) I still want it, but I know going into it that I'm going to be unsatisfied, making me bitter. I get wet very easily just flirting with a guy in school, but it's real work to get myself ready when I'm with my husband. He works nights and we have children, so time is limited. Honestly, I just don't think he CARES about my satisfaction. I've had 1 orgasm in my life, while high

2006-10-13 14:19:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce