i've been dating this girl for a while
i really do love her
but other guys tell her they love her all the time
in one instance a guy said that she was playing him, he was just a backup plan, and she didn't really love him and he hoped she was happy with me because she ruined something really special
she said that he took something she said the wrong way
and her homecoming is tomorrow
she didn't tell me
her friend told me
and she's a cheerleader...so i guess according to tradition cheerleaders go with football players..i wouldn't know cause my school doesn't have homecoming, but she didn't tell me when it was or the fact that she had a date becasue she "thought i wouldn't wanna know"
and what are some other signs
2006-10-13 14:26:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you ever talk to this girl yourself? are you sure you are dating her? Sounds like you get all your info second hand.
2006-10-13 14:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is not telling you things, especially something as important like Homecoming, she's not all you think she is. She can take anyone she wants to homecoming, cheerleader or not. She IS NOT required to take a certain date. Least that's not the way it was when I was in HS.
Don't let her put this on YOUR shoulders. "Thought you wouldn't wanna know." Bull, SHE didn't want you to know.
Don't be a Sally and let her walk all over you, cheerleader or not. While you're sitting at home, she's on the arm of another guy at a formal dance.
I'd have a talk with her.
2006-10-13 14:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by SatinDoll1976 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God yes she's cheating! Why would you even want to be with someone who acted that way. She can't be that hot. You don't have to go to homecoming with a football player. Many girls go with their boyfriends who are not football players. You are getting played.
2006-10-13 14:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by cbay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to her and ask her about it. If you still feel like she isn't being honest ask one of her friends. BTW:If she fidgets, breaks eye contact, or there is a change in her voice she is probably lying.
2006-10-13 14:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by Grace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but that is screaming CHEATER. she's a playa don't love her. (well of course you're not going to listen to someone you dont know) but i was in love like you. if you really want her to love you back, then email me and i tell you, but i warn you it's very complicated.
2006-10-13 14:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by Austin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say ditch her she isnt worth the hassel listen to the other guy find someone who you can trust and rely on
good luck
2006-10-13 14:32:18 · answer #6 · answered by sandra m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she didn't invite you to homecomming she is most likely cheating on you.. why would she think that you didn't want to know that she is spending the night with another guy?
2006-10-13 14:29:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're young let it go. learn to communicate and respect yourself then maybe it will be time to fall in love. perhaps another 15 yrs. until then enjoy each day and relax.
2006-10-13 14:48:00 · answer #8 · answered by reefer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. Sorry guy, but seriously bail on that. That's got pain written all over it.
2006-10-13 14:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be cheating, but you definately don't want to just go on word of mouth.
2006-10-13 14:28:31 · answer #10 · answered by Tami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋