well the other day at school i was waiting for my boy friend and i saw him with my best friend at the corner of the building and i ran in the girls bath room and i practicly skipped all my classes and this just happend on thursday PLEASE help me i dont know what to do brake up with my boyfriend or loose my relation ship with my best friend
2006-10-13 14:34:15 · 24 answers · asked by danielle! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, were they doing anything that they shouldn't? Otherwise, speak to him, ask him.
2006-10-13 14:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by esai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many couples do you know that never fight? Some may fight rarely, yes. Never? *shrug* Most people have problems due to inexperience, lack of maturity, and inability to communicate. Complications can arise out of emotional trauma or mental illness. All the factors mentioned above will cause serious relationship problems. They can be overcome if both parties are willing, except possibly, the mental illness aspect. Unfortunately, most couples believe they are willing to change themselves, but in the end, are more comfortable being themselves, and don't really change, they instead try to alter the behavior of their partner, which usually fails miserably.
2016-05-22 00:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by Greta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't brake up with him or loose you friendship with your friend.. You need to ask them what was going on between them.. If either one was hitting on one another. You should loose the boyfriend because, boys will come and go and a best friend they don't come to often.. Once a cheater is always a cheater and this is from experiences with me.. I had the same exact problem with my boyfriend and my best friend.. I was man that the fact those two where even together alone without me near or even around them.. I asked my boyfriend and he said no, my bestfriend also said no.. But I knew that my bestfriend was lying because, her aunt told me and my other friend told me that she told them that.. I forgot about it but I was still mad and I soon got over it even though it happened three years ago I still wonder about her... My boyfriend on the other hand me and him still talk but we aren't together.. We have been going together for 41/2 years.. Now me and him are friends now.. But I still have LOVE for him.. So this is what you should consider your decision on..
2006-10-13 14:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually while you're still young I think you should stay in school and forget about boyfriends for awhile while you endeavor to study harder and learn how to not only spell but how to phrase questions better. By the time you learn these two simple things, not only will you be smarter, but when it does come time to figure out what to do with a recalcitrant boyfriend you won't have to ask this question again.
2006-10-13 14:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok!
Well, what exactly were they doing there? If it was like.. physical contact etc etc.. then you should dump him!!!
If not, like if they were just sitting or standing around each other, maybe they were just talking or actually organising something for maybe even you! You can talk to them about it, or just slip it in casual conversation like.. "Oh, i saw you on Thursday with -------, what were you's up to?"
In the end, i think you should just work it out with your mate and your bf.. if he was cheating on you, then you shouldnt deserve that! Especially when he is doing it with your BEST FRIEND! What kind of best friend does that?
Anyways i hope you resolve this problem :)
2006-10-13 14:43:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brake up with your boyfriend. Don't ruin a relationship with a friend that has been there for you. Don't vote as a bad answer just because you don't like the answer. You should actually dump both of them. It takes two to cheat.
2006-10-13 14:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
men may come n go , unless he puts u first n treats u as his princess
friends can b trusted or NOT, if shes movin on ur b.f good chances are she will still do it in 30 years time
always stand ur ground, u should of just walked up and joined in the convo
sort her out with a lil chat, or give her the flick
2006-10-13 14:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by globalveg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where they doing anything in the corner or were they talking. If he is cheating on you with your best friend, then ditch them both. She would not be your best friend and he sucks at life.
2006-10-13 14:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by J R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you can start out by talking to your friend or your boyfriend about why they were talking in the first place....dont assume the worst
2006-10-13 14:35:52 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
break up w/ him, or talk to him first, and tell your friend how you feel. i havent really seen any friendships last over a friend cheating with the other's boyfriend/girlfriend on t.v.
2006-10-13 14:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You saw them together and you want to keep them in your life?
You need to open the mind and realize they aren't true and get new friends.
2006-10-13 14:35:53 · answer #11 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋