Okay so i have a best friend. and about a month ago she started ignoring me at school and only talking to me at night on the phone, so i started ignoring her, which i shouldnt have done but i dont like fighting with people in public or anywhere for that matter. Anyhow, she started hanging out with me again but at ball games she NEVER talks to me and somehow she says i dont talk to her, but how could i i mean she sits with people she knows i dont fit in with for a guy whom she likes i would never do that, and so this week i was like i am not going to the ball game. This afternoon i was mean but i thought she deserved it after all she had done to me except to day it was like i was the mean one, but i'm shy and sweet and quiet, and i was trying to prove a point to her that i was not a pushover, anyhow she couldnt go to the game unless someone went w/ her, and i refused, so until like 7 she was pissed, and left this mean msg on my phone, and then i call to say sory and she @ was @ the ga
2006-10-13 14:21:55 · 12 answers · asked by a 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
okay fyi, to the rude answerer i think you prolly know who you are, that was mean, and you dont know the situation nor me, so dont infer, just answer, i dont need your opinion of me, or the way i am.
2006-10-13 14:36:53 · update #1
Trust me I have had alot of experience with this. First get her alone and tell her how you feell if she continues then she is not a true friend.
Cut her loose. You can make new friends. They also say that friends grow apart as you get older. This is true.
The stuff she is doing is not what a best friend should do but you didn't respond very well though. Now take the high road and act more adult . Ask her what the deal is then if she stops for a while then continues you should sit her down and end the friendship.
2006-10-13 16:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by Riza M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she is defiantly mad at you! The next time you see her in person you should pull her aside and ask what has been going on. Make sure she is paying attention too. Tell her what you think has been going on, and that you fell ignored. Real friends should want to talk to you and hang out. Good luck!
2006-10-13 21:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by Grace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh girls are just mean! I suggest hanging with guys. They don't have nearly the amount of drama that girls do. Anyway, I agree with the person who said that she is using you. Sounds like she just wants you to be her friend when it is convenient to her. This girl is not a true friend...I don't know about you but I would rather have no friends then bad ones....
2006-10-13 21:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by lcplyr7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to me.Its not easy, if i were you i wouldnt have had sorry if she didnt leave the mean message on ur phone then maybe i would but after she did that i would be real pissed. She was wrong... but in the end ya'll will be friends again trust me....... experience
2006-10-13 21:29:40 · answer #4 · answered by Neesaxxlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is using you when she gets lonely. She wants to be a part of the other crowd. You did the right thing. You need to find new friends.
2006-10-13 21:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you say you are sweet.I would not call what you did sweet if she was just call calling after school she could want to learn while in school and play after. if understand but sounds like you want your friend to do what you want and be just like you . that not going to happen. she is her own person just as you are. respect her for her. you do not sound like a pushover but you do sound pushy
2006-10-13 21:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by Bunny 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd say no she isn't your friend. No you weren't wrong she was being mean to you first so it's just as fair for you to be mean back.
2006-10-13 21:26:00 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask her whats wrong with her
is she embarresed of you
is she jelous of you
ask and if shes being bitchy i would just stop hanging around her but be nice you dont want to have enemys
2006-10-13 21:25:25 · answer #8 · answered by sweet2karina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do the obvious, tell her how you feel and find out whats going on. you will feel better and know whats going on. good luck.
2006-10-13 21:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by scotts girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry. if she rally was yourfriend she wouldn't keep this a secret. get new friend. that isn't afriad to show your friendship to the public, someone like me for example
2006-10-13 21:28:25 · answer #10 · answered by Stacey l 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋