Family & Relationships - 12 October 2006

Ok an ex friend of mine has threatened to report that I am with a man which makes me very happy, but yet I am still married because my husband refuses to give me a divorce, I have been having a difficult time trying to find a good way to get my divorce but not having any luck. could anyone please help me?

2006-10-12 02:27:13 · 4 answers · asked by Boo G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

at what age do you think it is appropriate to allow your children to date? Should it also be based on how mature the child is?

2006-10-12 02:25:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been with my boyfriend since we were 17, and we both love each other like hell. But my friends keep telling me that it's ridiculous to be so serious with someone form such a young age. Now that we are planning to move in together, they go on and on about how pathetic that is.

How on earth do I shut them up, without seeming rude?

2006-10-12 02:25:35 · 27 answers · asked by jana 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

because i just found out my friend is gay.

2006-10-12 02:25:30 · 7 answers · asked by your worst nightmare 2 in Friends

I am talking about your sex life

2006-10-12 02:24:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 58 and 8 years divorced after 21 years of marriage. He is divorced as well. Whenever he sees me his eyes light up and he's very attentative. At first I didn't pay it any attention, but the last time I saw him it was more noticable and I got this tingly feeling. We don't see each other a lot because he lives out of town. In my 20's I had no problem with this, but at this age I feel apprenhensive and I am not quite sure of how to really approach him or what to say to break the ice. To be honest, I'm down right afraid. He seems apprehensive as well, but one of us needs to do something. Right now we are more like two pre-teenagers bumping in to each other and afraid to look too long. For me this is crazy compared to the way I was in my younger days. If you've experienced this, can you give any suggestions? I will see him again next month. I need to be ready this time. I'd appreciate honest advice from people in my own age group, ie. 50 and above.

2006-10-12 02:22:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Give me examples of holiday celebrations, houses u lived in as a child, your native place of birth, food, smells, people...
Anybody from former Soviet Union can share their memories with me.

2006-10-12 02:21:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok well Theres this guy and most girls like him you wouldn't think im the "type" to like him he has red hair and he has his lip pierced he is in 8th rade and hes 15 im only 13 he likes me and he asked my best friend andrew to see if i ike him and I do but andrew says i shouldn't like him because he is older andrews been my best friend since i was born...what do i do i really like this guy??

2006-10-12 02:21:09 · 9 answers · asked by Bella 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl told a guy he is the only one she doesn't ant any other guy will the guy care about the girl or just the attention the girl is giving...? He knows the girl is totally in love with him!

2006-10-12 02:20:47 · 10 answers · asked by for_ever_kobe 1 in Singles & Dating

Some says it is very tedious to last forever,some says it depends on the person how he is.It's really a bit confusing,so can u state me what exactly it is pls...?

2006-10-12 02:20:34 · 13 answers · asked by hots! 2 in Friends

Men just won't open up. It's not a sign of weakness to talk about feelings. We all have them.

2006-10-12 02:20:02 · 13 answers · asked by Lynda 4 in Singles & Dating

I see her on the train to work, at the store near my job, everywhere? What does this mean.

2006-10-12 02:19:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 02:18:07 · 17 answers · asked by Stewart D 1 in Family

oh people please help! there is an operation for virginitiy or not,becos my marriage is going to take place the coming months and i'm not a virgin,any person have an idear.

2006-10-12 02:17:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

its not that he drinks everyday, maybe 1-2 times a week but when he does he gets really wrecked and is abusive. he argue's about stupid things and is generally a horrible person... he is the exact opposite whan he sober and we have a wonderfull marriage but i just never know if he is going to turn up from work drunk or what mood he will be in? i cant deal with the abuse and i feel really depressed but i also feel that i cant live without him...
we have spoken about this problem and he admits that he should'nt drink but once he starts he just cant stop... what should i do???

2006-10-12 02:17:38 · 40 answers · asked by lp261084 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-12 02:17:25 · 7 answers · asked by katie 2 in Friends

Why do I always lead guys on, and make them feel like they have a chance, when they don't, and then once I know I have then all in-love, i crash their hopes and "dump" them?
Is it healthy. and how do I change. I don't want to spend my whole life like this. What do I do to fix myself?

2006-10-12 02:16:42 · 16 answers · asked by You're giving it all away! 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this person a couple of months ago. We enjoy things togather . We have fun , we tease each other in a loving way. I enjoy her company and I know she enjoys mine. i know we are going to fast; it just happened . when I'm at work and I know its her calling i grin from ear to ear.

2006-10-12 02:16:41 · 13 answers · asked by lost 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to have sexual intercourse with my girlfriend but she is afraid. We have been dating for 10 months now and we always spend about four nights sleeping in the same bed a week. she only allows me to finger her and a bit of oral sex only.

2006-10-12 02:16:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My parents 25th wedding anniversary is next year and Im throwing them a suprise party. However, Im having a hard time finding great silver decorations that are elegant but still affordable. Where do i go for this because all the web sites I have gone to barely have anything.

2006-10-12 02:16:15 · 6 answers · asked by brittany f 1 in Weddings

when he is always tired or he says he have a headache?

2006-10-12 02:16:00 · 12 answers · asked by holla 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am curious to know what men and women think of cyber flirting and cyber sex??? Would you consider that behavior to be cheating on your current relationship? If you do it and think it is fine, what would you think if you found your partner was doing it as well??? How do you feel about the idea of your partner chatting with a person of the opposite sex online...even if there is no sexual overtones to the relationship?? Would you want to know if your partner was involved in an online friendship (again, nothing sexual) with a member of the opposite sex??

2006-10-12 02:14:53 · 21 answers · asked by Annie 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm planning on wearing my pantyhose under my jeans so should I wear shorts with my hose?
I want to go and try on some high heels what would you think if you seen a guy trying on heels while wearing jeans with a pantyhose clad foot

2006-10-12 02:13:00 · 3 answers · asked by hoselover15 1 in Singles & Dating

It is hard on my new relationship. It has caused alot of problems and fighting. For three years, my boyfriend has given it his all in trying to get the kids approval. They are l8, 20, and l2. On top of it all, the kids snub me a little and talk to my parents about what a geek he is. This is very hurtful to him and makes me mad. Will it ever change? Will I ever be able to share a meal with my 3 kids and the man I love at Christmas or ever? What can I do to fix this? It makes life miserable when we all can't be together.

2006-10-12 02:12:03 · 19 answers · asked by lucy p 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i really like my boy friend but he bosses me around alot. ever since i started going out with him (9 months ago) i,ve gave up all my friends for him except one and i cant talk to her when im around him. not even say hey! help!!

2006-10-12 02:11:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am very alone in my marriage. My wife is clearly unhappy (check most recent question to get details on that). I want to make her happy again and crave this marriage and desire me. But my problem is, I find it difficult to give and give and give with nothing in return. I also find it difficult to hide my pain and my hurt. I want to smile and laugh with her, I want to act like everything is ok and normal, but how do I go about doing that on a consistent basis. It seems like I can do it for a short period of time but when nothing changes or I am not receiving her love or desire in return, I either become angry or sad. I just don't know how to act in this situation. i don't want to seperate, we have a daughter and i just won't leave my family. But it's very tough trying to find the best way to handle this situation. Sometimes I'm afraid if I show too much happiness, she'll think I'm ok with where things are. But if I show I'm hurt, she will be turned away from even more. Help

2006-10-12 02:11:48 · 7 answers · asked by imagineus2night 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do we as parents and students protect ourselves against the growing violence in the school system?

2006-10-12 02:09:57 · 6 answers · asked by Brian T 2 in Family

there r 3 boys tht like me and i don't know wat do do cause there all nice but 1 who smokes and the others relle like me 4 me and not my a@@ plz help

2006-10-12 02:09:47 · 10 answers · asked by lynn 1 in Singles & Dating

yestrday i was working( i work in a health food shop) and one guy came in. whn i asked if he needed any help. he started talking to me. and said i had a very lovely face. asked my name, told his. then somehow we were talkin and he left his number. he looked quite nice. i dont know what to txt him now :-S i have never texted guys first...please tell me what would you say?

2006-10-12 02:09:37 · 11 answers · asked by zarinabezler 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in 2008, and am cofused about what is the best colours for weddings, i am at the moment going with white and red because white is the traditional colour and red is lucky in china, which is where i live, i am having the wedding in the uk mind, could any one advise on if them to are good or if there not why

2006-10-12 02:07:59 · 29 answers · asked by mazzo2001 2 in Weddings