I am curious to know what men and women think of cyber flirting and cyber sex??? Would you consider that behavior to be cheating on your current relationship? If you do it and think it is fine, what would you think if you found your partner was doing it as well??? How do you feel about the idea of your partner chatting with a person of the opposite sex online...even if there is no sexual overtones to the relationship?? Would you want to know if your partner was involved in an online friendship (again, nothing sexual) with a member of the opposite sex??
2006-10-12 02:14:53 · 21 answers · asked by Annie 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well it all depends. is it cheating if there is no actual skin touching or is it fantasy? For my husband and myself, its all fantasy. I don't mind that he gets on line and does his thing as long as the woman knows it's all for play and nothing serious. I don't practice it but I don't shun it either. I don't mind my husband talking with females either. He wants to be friends with anyone, it's fine with me. I talk to males on line as friends and only friends. Most of our "on line friends" are both his and my friends. I have no reason to care, he has female friends in real life so no reason to think badly about it on line. I looked at other answers and seen where people said if you do it then it's cheating, anytime you think of someone else in a lustful way it's cheating, so that draws another question...Is masturbation cheating? I can guarantee that most the people that do that aren't thinking of their significant other and well when you're on line, all you do is yourself, you can't do them. So reading other answers, if anything you do not involving them is cheating then masturbation is cheating?
2006-10-12 02:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by ~*~frankie~*~ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-05 22:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by Julio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If cyber flirtation and sex is actively being pursued while in an exclusive relationship.......yes, that is cheating. Regardless of sexual overtones or not......if one's significant other is engaged in on line chat it should always be disclosed to the other partner. It just comes down to honesty and integrity. How can one be a good steward of an exclusive relationship while cattin around online.......sexual overtones or not?
2006-10-12 02:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by Janet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For sure it's cheating, even if there is no sex an emotional affair can be more damaging then a sexual one. If another woman was lending a shoulder for my hubby to cry on I would be PISSED!!! That's what I am here for. If I leaned on another man for the same reason man my hubby would be be so hurt. Plus cybering sucks! How in the hell are you going to type and "play" at the same time?? Sounds not too enjoyable.
2006-10-12 02:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by Brenda M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is definitely cheating, I would never do that to my b/f, and I would go mental if I found out he was flirting on line. If it is an innocent friendship and there was no flirting, no sexual overtones then that's fine I think, I would not hide anything from my other half, he would be more than welcome to read any emails if they were totally innocent as there would be nothing there to upset or hurt him or damage our relationship. If something is innocent then there is no need to hide it. But flirting and sex talk is totally wrong.
2006-10-12 02:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is okay to talk to someone, about sports, restaurants, etc. If the person is of the opposite sex, and you chat with them often, you spouse/girlfriend/whatever should know about them. Once you begin flirting with them, or talking about sex, you have crossed the line. The person on the other end of the line IS a PERSON. It's just like phone sex. It's wrong when you are in a committed relationship.
2006-10-12 02:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I would be mad about it. In all areas. FIrst and foremost why are you looking on the net for a friend/partner? thats what would make me worry. WHy my hubby would want to find another girl to talk to and have cyber with? And what would make me think that if he didnt find a friend outside of the net, that he wouldnt be interested in taking further steps, since he thinks nothing of it by doing that over the internet. There would be a huge trust issue with me. Yes its cheating. Cause your interested in someone else.
2006-10-12 02:21:11 · answer #7 · answered by yournotalone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good ol' chatting is one thing - flirting, sex etc....entirely different and totally constitutes cheating if ur in a relationship. Even if my partner had an online friend, I'd like to know.
2006-10-12 02:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by Peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating!!! Cyber sex oral sex donkey sex- is all cheating. If My boyfriend does anything sexual..physical or not with another girl then he is cheating. Cheating begins in the mind
Otherwise having friends online is not cheating and yes i want to know if he hs friends online.=)
2006-10-12 02:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is cheating because it is emotional cheating... if he's spending or sharing things with someone else other than his wife then its cheating. even if there's no sexual overtones in the conversation now, it will eventually lead to it because sooner or later they'll start sharing things about their marriages and then they'll take it to the next level. I would definately want to know if my partner was talking to someone else because then I would want to fix it, because there must be a reason why he's talking to someone else. Why would he want to talk to someone else other than his spouse/partner? Something's not right. It is cheating or will lead to cheating.
2006-10-12 02:22:32 · answer #10 · answered by antoinette m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋