I met this person a couple of months ago. We enjoy things togather . We have fun , we tease each other in a loving way. I enjoy her company and I know she enjoys mine. i know we are going to fast; it just happened . when I'm at work and I know its her calling i grin from ear to ear.
2006-10-12 02:16:41 · 13 answers · asked by lost 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just don't rebound with this person....enjoy and have fun.
wait to move it along until your divorce is done though....get done with one relationship before you start another....
It's also an ego boost for both of you as you seem to enjoy each other....patience....
good luck
2006-10-12 02:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by Babsygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, I would wonder.....you didn't mention whether your spouse wanted the divorce or you did; and whether you met this other person before you wanted the divorce. If you spouse wanted the divorce, you may be feeling 'rejected' and this new person is making you feel better about yourself. If you wanted the divorce (because you met this 'new' person), you may be in a mid-life crisis (you didn't mention your age) or under the assumption that 'the grass is greener on the other side'. And, this other person could be your 'rebound' person. I am not saying that it ISN'T love; just seems soon to 'BE LOVE' - especially since your divorce isn't final yet. There is a lot of baggage that comes with divorce and it is a difficult time so this other person is probably a 'relief' from all that. I would go slow and be real careful, not to hurt this other person, or be hurt yourself. And it could be love; time will tell. Best of luck to you.
2006-10-12 02:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by amora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're infatuated with this person. Don't put too much weight into it though. As you get to know them, you may find that a lot of the things that drew you to her were traits similar to your ex. After a couple of months, you may want to distance yourself from those feelings any way associated with your divorce.
2006-10-12 02:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is love. It may have started because of bad circumstances, but no matter how love starts it is still love. congratulations, some people never find it. Enjoy it, and go slow, it is when you go too fast that things get all screwed up.
2006-10-12 02:20:34 · answer #4 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, let's ask this question, is the divorce because of this other person? Take your time slow it up a bit and see what happens then....
2006-10-12 02:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by dns618 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the begining is like that but the moment it takes some months then you can decide for yourself, wheather it love or lust. goodluck. Go with your head first not your hearts
2006-10-12 02:24:20 · answer #6 · answered by sweet girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow there. It may be love or it could be that you are feeling something on a rebound.
2006-10-12 02:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope i dont think its love .. even if u know get a divorce ur going to get another one with ur new wife after few years.. the problem is YOU !!
2006-10-12 02:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say its love,but it sounds like you are off on the right foot..Good luck..
2006-10-12 02:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by Frank D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're in love.
try to end your relationship first before you start anything new. otherwise it can be called cheating.
2006-10-12 02:19:50 · answer #10 · answered by laughing cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋