i really like my boy friend but he bosses me around alot. ever since i started going out with him (9 months ago) i,ve gave up all my friends for him except one and i cant talk to her when im around him. not even say hey! help!!
2006-10-12 02:11:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have made up your mind to break up with your boyfriend? Have you tried speaking to him about his problem? He sounds possesive - but if he really loves you, he may be willing to change. If not - you can just say that that is not enough for you (you need your friends as well ) and move on.
2006-10-12 17:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by Curious_Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well generally you should stay away from people with insane jealously sickness (It is a sickness all right). If you feel you should give him another chance then talk to him, make him understand that this kind of behavior wont do any good and just pulls you away from him. Make him understand you are independent and self confident and may dump him anytime. This should shake him up.
Now if you absolutely want to break up, the best way is to be patient about a week or two giving hints of your disappointment. Try being distant and cold. Eventually he will notice some thing's wrong wanna talk to you. At this point if you tell him to break up he will be subconsciously prepared.
2006-10-12 09:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by manosfantasyart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no really easy way to break up with anyone. Man or woman. But given your question, it should be very easy. Just go right up to him and tell him how you feel. Tell him it is over. Let him know why. You are being disrespected and smothered. If he won't let you have time with your friends and you are being bossed around, then you are getting the short end of this proverbial stick.
2006-10-12 09:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you are tired of his c**p and its time you moved on...Be up front and straight forward.Just don't let it escalate into an arguement.If you are really uncomfortable in the relationship, you should get out of.People like that do not change, even if they say they will...Its a controll thing and they have to always feel like they have it...I am glad you see this and wish you all the luck in getting out of this and moving into a good solid 50/50 relationship.Smiles..
2006-10-12 09:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by Frank D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now. Sounds like he is a control freak. Just sit him down and tell him how you feel. If he doesnt understand you you sure dont need him anyway. If you are scared to break up with him make sure someone is close by when you tell him this. Are ask for my phone number and I will call him for you.Good luck
2006-10-12 09:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by what to do 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him and tell him you don't like the way he's treating you. If when the two of you had first start dating and he didn't treat you this way geting to know you then why all of a sudden as he been acting this way. Tell him you need your friwnds just as how he will need his friends to compile on if this doesn't work well i guess you'll have to say bye-bye to him and fine someone who will treat you with the respect and love you deserve not to mention be your equal.
2006-10-12 09:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by Randisha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all need to love and to be loved.
Most of our issues could be solved fairly easily, if we have our loved one supporting us.
If you are hurt by a former ex, well you just need to get yourself up and start searching for someone who deserves your love.
Don't ever be shy .. that won't ever help you .. and you'll have lots to lose. Do what your heart tells you it's right.
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2006-10-12 09:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all need to love and to be loved.
Most of our issues could be solved fairly easily, if we have our loved one supporting us.
If you are hurt by a former ex, well you just need to get yourself up and start searching for someone who deserves your love.
Don't ever be shy .. that won't ever help you .. and you'll have lots to lose. Do what your heart tells you it's right.
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2006-10-12 09:16:55 · answer #8 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well just tell him u need a break and find somebody better then when u find someone u just telll him yall cant be together anymore and please please do not marry him b/c girl this is ur best friend and i kno how he treats u and sometimes its good and sometimes it bad and it bad when u cant hang with me or talk to me but g2g lylas byz
2006-10-12 09:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's been that bad to you, why make it easy?
Tell him that you're tired of his attitude and you're leaving him; anyone who makes you leave friends for his sake isn't a very good boyfriend.
2006-10-12 09:15:28 · answer #10 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋