Family & Relationships - 12 October 2006

hi everyone! i'm 25, single, and i never had a boyfriend before, ever! I am not good looking, i will say slightly below average, i'm slightly overweight, say about 110%.. just a little more then average. =)

I feel really lonely, my friends are all getting married, and i kept on waiting, i wish someone will love me like everyone else. I want to be attatch but no guys like me. I don't know what is wrong with me, i really have no clue. I feel so lost and depressed now but i try my best not to show it.

I consider myself a friendly person, i do have guy friends but they are just not interested in me romantically.

Someone please tell me what is wrong with me. I don't wish to end up single, and alone.

:'(

2006-10-12 15:48:51 · 24 answers · asked by Jeselle 1 in Singles & Dating

work like that but i really really like him and i think he likes me he stares at me but i just cant make the first move i no i need to brave but everytime i try but i just can i really want to get his atintion 2morow and mabey posibly get asked out, What should i do?

2006-10-12 15:47:02 · 8 answers · asked by Corey H 1 in Singles & Dating

I am with a man who is the father of our 2 1/2 year old daughter. We have been together for 5 1/2 years but are not officially married. He treats me kind of crappy sometimes and won't help one bit financially, even if he is working. I feel so unhappy.... We just moved to Iowa from Colorado, we met in Iowa, and I know that I want him here, atleast in this state with me for our daughter's sake. I am approaching 30 at the end of this month and I know I don't want to be with him forever. I really want to start dating other people just for the closeness and affection. We haven't had sex in probably 2 months atleast. I think he's using me. We are staying at my parents until we get a house, but I don't want to buy a house with him cause I don't want to be with him forever. I need some advice, please help!

2006-10-12 15:46:52 · 22 answers · asked by SingleRose 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my parents are celebrating thier 50th anv.next week we are wanting good questions and answers for the celebration to quiz them on

2006-10-12 15:46:51 · 2 answers · asked by cowbabies5 1 in Weddings

I am 25 going on 26. Never been on a date. I live in Hawaii. I am a Christian.

2006-10-12 15:46:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's this one girl i like and i've already told her that i like her. she says that she doesn't like anybody at the moment but i think she likes me but she's playing hard to get..how can i tell?

2006-10-12 15:45:26 · 7 answers · asked by short_gnome101 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend came to me and said she feels toaly ashamesd guilty and viloated. While hanging out with an ex boy friend he began asking her for sex. She said no and he persisted. He told her that she owed him and that she was not being there for him when he needed it. he made her feel guilty and worthless and kept telling her if she had sex one more time with him then he would continue to be her friend snd not hate her and they would be even for the help he had given her in the past. She still continued to say no no and no and began to cry. She went to use the bath room so she could leave when she came out he was standing there and began touching her some more harrasing her for "one last time" she still protested but stoped eventualy and he took off her close and put her on the floor and started having sex with her. After a few minutes she couldnt take it and began to cry and stoped him. She says "I just stood there and let him so he would stop harrasing me" Is waht he did wrong?Or is she?

2006-10-12 15:44:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 15:44:34 · 4 answers · asked by lee j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Not a regular sized one, either. A Reese's Big Cup. Is it wrong? I think it is, but my friend disagrees. I always tell him it's wrong to hit a woman. Unless of course she kicks you in the balls, and then God himself wouldn't blame you. And oh yeah, which do you prefer: Cap'n Crunch or Cocoa Puffs?

2006-10-12 15:43:21 · 24 answers · asked by Shadow 6 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I just asked this question. And alot of people gave me great answers, but I feel I should inlude a llil more! He knows how I feel, he knows I feel doubt about him loving me! But when I tell himm I feel he says that he does love me! He doesn't hold huge conversations about relationships, bc he is feed up w/ those covnersations! When we were going through our problems, thats all we would talk about! Now we are working things through! He says he still loves me, but is it possible he is just saying that? Would a man stay w/ someone bc they are comfortable, or if they truely didn't love someone would they go? By him staying and working things through, does that show he really loves me? It is just going totake time?

2006-10-12 15:42:40 · 5 answers · asked by jacquelineleeca 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm going to a gay club tonight with my friends. There's about 6 of us going... two of them are gay, so we're going for their sakes, and I won't be the only straight person there. I'm extremely nervous though... because I don't really know what to expect. Has anyone straight been to a gay bar? What do I do if a girl hits on me? I'm so nervous, lol.

2006-10-12 15:42:08 · 31 answers · asked by deepwaters05 3 in Singles & Dating

I never tried dating online and I don't know how much time it takes from saying hello online to an actual date...Is it worth paying for an online website like eHarmony, or Match.com?

2006-10-12 15:41:46 · 11 answers · asked by Duuuude no waaaay! 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 15:40:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sisters a drug addict..intervenous drugs, she has 3 kids but doesn't have them anymore.there dad has them, sleeps at a crack shack, steals to support her habit, is wanted by the police on warrants for not appearing in court..has already been in jail twice..I'm her younger sister by 15months..My question is because I know shes killing herself and am sickly worried about her , should I turn her in?..also because of where I live (small city) why haven't the cops picked her up yet, they know who she is..I try to stay out of her life cause she won't take advice or listen to anyone..any one have similar experiences?

2006-10-12 15:40:28 · 9 answers · asked by tazzle 2 in Family

Never been unfaithful except 2 years before being married does this mean that you are cheater the rest of your life together?

2006-10-12 15:39:43 · 30 answers · asked by bonz1958 2 in Marriage & Divorce

help. I used to like a senior at my school. I'm a freshmen, he knows that im a freshmen, but he doesn;t care. He used to talk to me as a friend. When he started talking to me, I thought he wanted to be friends, then he started to change. He was flirting, touching, and saying things to me that im hot or sexy. My friends saw he was hugging good- bye to me, they started to say that i like him , but i don't (well i used to). people were always looking at me whether he was around. now he stopped talking to me. but i always catching him stating and checking me out. when i went to ask my teacher something, he was there also. my teacher said no to me cuz i asked her if i can go to the bathroom. so i left. he wa s still with my teacher. and i turned my head back. he wa staring right at me looking sad. i told this to my best friend, she said is he likes me, but he doesn't want to show it because people will make fun of him cuz he likes someone younger than him. is it possible that he likes me???

2006-10-12 15:39:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a girl a few weeks ago that I wound up taking to homecoming. We both seemed to be interested in each other, in fact I was told by one of her friends that she "really likes me". Before homecoming we got together once for what was sort of an unofficial date, and we both had a great time. well, I was planning to ask her out at homecoming but it didn't work out due to the fact that a few of her friends were in our group and they really didn't give us any time to be alone for me to ask her. It's been 5 days since homecoming, and it's pretty clear that things are kind of different between us now, and it seems like she's viewing us more as friends. Any advice as to what I could do to get her interested in me again so I can have another shot to make a move? Hanging out one on one really isn't an option for at least another week or two cuz we're both so busy and I don't want to wait that long to get things going again. Thanks for any advice

2006-10-12 15:38:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 15:38:33 · 9 answers · asked by [youwish] 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 15:38:31 · 5 answers · asked by jw 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

well this what happened i thought my boyfriend was going hit me the other night. i clicked on something wrong with the cpmouter i was tring to help him and he got mad because i clicked the wrong thing. well he put his fist like he was going to hit me and i had falshback because he hit me beofre that was over a year ago. he keeps telling me he sorry for hiting me and for yelling at me what should i do. i have been talking too this guy online and we both like eachother. i am very confused and i dont know what to do please help me.

2006-10-12 15:38:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How do you tell a girl you like her. But you don't know if she likes you. and she thinks I'm a jackass

2006-10-12 15:37:54 · 23 answers · asked by Christian N 2 in Friends

i went to highschool with this guy and had a very special relationship. well after highschool we lost contact i got married then divorced a couple years later. the day i got my divorce i saw him at this gas station in our home town. it was like love at first site all over again , you could tell he was excited to see me but for what ever reason we missed the chance to actually speak. long story short iam looking for him now. not nessasarily for a hookup again but just to see how hes been. i hope someone can help me??!!

2006-10-12 15:37:31 · 3 answers · asked by thinkofmealwayslver 3 in Singles & Dating

He and I have been in an online relationship for two years now and months back it has been crashing down. I tried to love him through a computer but it was not enough. I understand why he yells at me, I understand that I do not provide enough and I understand why says I am a "stupid stupid little girl". I am loyal to him only. Does he understand that? I love HIM only. He says I'm pretending. This is not a game, it never was. Why would tears be shed, screens punched right through, tantrums that would throw anyone onto the brink of insanity? If it was fake, why does it hurt so much? This is not puppy love, and passions dies. We know what each other needs. I do not think he knows how much we can hurt each other. Never apologies, never resolutions. It burns. It does.

2006-10-12 15:37:28 · 9 answers · asked by Julia 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 15:35:31 · 11 answers · asked by julvert h 1 in Singles & Dating

I filed my wife and my tax returns as married filing jointly. My exwife has ordered a child support review. Will my new wife's earnings be included with the total that the agency looks at in a review?

2006-10-12 15:35:13 · 16 answers · asked by joconfidence 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-12 15:33:53 · 16 answers · asked by anonymoususer987876 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-12 15:33:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am feeling real sad and blue right now. first i was very very pissed off but now i am just so hurt and heart broken. my best friend that i have known and loved from childhood has just told me that she has been having an affair with my husband but wants to come clean and stop seeing him. what do i do?

2006-10-12 15:33:32 · 18 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy on my soccer team we talk to each other alot and he's always like your silly and staring at me and when we were doing drills he just came and stood right by me. Plus when he's with his friends he's always staring at me!

2006-10-12 15:33:19 · 4 answers · asked by Like Woah 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

there's this girl at school kayla, and i like her...just a crush...but she's really cool...she's pretty and really fun to talk to, but her parents won't let her date, and she likes someone else
i invited her to a concert next month and i'll probably pay for her ticket if i can
but is it worth it? she said i'm cool and all that
any suggestions on how to get her to like me, if it's possible

2006-10-12 15:33:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating