I met a girl a few weeks ago that I wound up taking to homecoming. We both seemed to be interested in each other, in fact I was told by one of her friends that she "really likes me". Before homecoming we got together once for what was sort of an unofficial date, and we both had a great time. well, I was planning to ask her out at homecoming but it didn't work out due to the fact that a few of her friends were in our group and they really didn't give us any time to be alone for me to ask her. It's been 5 days since homecoming, and it's pretty clear that things are kind of different between us now, and it seems like she's viewing us more as friends. Any advice as to what I could do to get her interested in me again so I can have another shot to make a move? Hanging out one on one really isn't an option for at least another week or two cuz we're both so busy and I don't want to wait that long to get things going again. Thanks for any advice
2006-10-12 15:38:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems like she was expecting you to ask her. The reason she revert her feelings to just friends is because you didn't ask her that time and on her part, she thought that you are just being friendly. So she held back her feelings so as not to embarrass herself if the feelings wasn't mutual.
2006-10-12 21:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by axix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out! Be straightforward! She might have cooled off because she really expected you to make the first move at homecoming, but you didn't so she might think you don't like her. If she's always surrounded by people, well man up and ask her for a moment alone. Good luck!
2006-10-12 22:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by Snickle Beast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just give her a call and tell her how much you enjoyed homecoming and that you'd like to see her again.... and then pick a date out and see if she's available (since you're both busy right now). You have to let her know - because she may thing you dropped the ball.
2006-10-12 22:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by longhats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with using the telephone? Call her up and let her know you enjoy her company and you would like to take her out again. Let her know that you have a busy schedule and you know hers is busy too.Tell her if she is willing to go out with you , you will call her from time to time until there is an opening in both yours and hers secedule to set up a date.
That way you keep the line of communication open and you gret to talk to her more and know her more
2006-10-12 22:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just show interest in the things that interest her and pay attention when she talks...also...and this might be a bit sacrificial on your part...try to get along with and be nice to all of her friends. They have a great deal of influence over her at this age and if they don't like you- she's not going to like you either. Best wishes to you.
2006-10-12 22:43:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her up. If you are too shy to do that then right her a note about your feelings. Try to hang out with her and be nice. If she is interested she will do all the talking.
2006-10-12 22:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by lynx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk with her to class show her you want to be involved withher by like walking with her to her classes one thing that girls dont like is when a guy just want to spend alone time n not with her friends show her you dont mind to be around her with her friends and dont be mean or rude to her friends spend time with her at lunch see if you guys can hang out together after school even if its for like 15 to 30 min walk her home from school if its walking distance offer to buy her something like a a drink or even something to eat good luck and also dont try to impress her too much just be yourself ALL the way
2006-10-12 22:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by kandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd call her and ask her out. Maybe she was expecting you to ask her out at homecoming, and when you didn't she decided to play it cool. Good luck.
2006-10-12 22:41:05 · answer #8 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GEE UR DESPRATE! dont stress, just flirt, or get another girl! there r pleanty of girls out there! LOL
2006-10-12 22:42:45 · answer #9 · answered by --»~Ñü†~«-- (LâW¥€®) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just not into you. Move on.
2006-10-12 22:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋