Family & Relationships - 12 October 2006

She is very bright and sweet and was a straight A student but has problems focusing on assignments. Recently she finished half her test because she broke eher pencil and took forever to find another in her back pack. I need ideas on how to help her. She tries to be a perfectionist and it is becoming unhealthy

2006-10-12 15:00:28 · 4 answers · asked by dee 3 in Family

and am currently laid off of work. Would this turn him off???

2006-10-12 15:00:23 · 11 answers · asked by jennyju 1 in Singles & Dating

I told him i would give him $20 to buy pot but then i didnt because he told me to "stop being ******* annoying" when we were in public. so he started hitting walls and yelling that I was a f*cking b*tch and even tried taking my purse. He started saying that I was greedy and stuff. is this normal for a 19 year old guy?

2006-10-12 14:59:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so i met this guy and one of mny best friends likes him too, we both know eachother like him, but we dont know what we should do, since we don't want to ruin our friendship. i went out with him before, but only for a weekend, so we never even saw eachother or spent time with eachother, so i want to go out with him again. he still ikes me and thinks im hot, he just dumped me because we didnt know eachother good enough yet. but now we do. but my best friend really likes him, ALOT! but no body knows if he likes her. i dont think he likes her like that, but he thinks im hot and likes me. he hasnt asked me out yet but last friday we held hands, and we are going to see eachother tomarrow, and my friend won't be there. what should i do.

p.s. my friend doesn't care if i go out with him again, because she wants me to be happy... but i would hate it if she hooked up ith him, and she knows it... we share everything together.

2006-10-12 14:58:52 · 13 answers · asked by snickelfritz 4 in Singles & Dating

Well, I had this thing with an ex coworker. We used to fool around a lot over IM and tease a lot. Till one day we ha sex (after she left my workplace of course). Now the rules where layed down, that we would just be F**** Buddies. But ever since that time, I personally lost intrest in doing it again, and add to the fact that I just met someone im really into. But she's has been on my case 24/7...making constant insinuations and demanding my attention, and what scared me the most, i went out with some friends last friday, and she made an akward "check up call" around 1am to see what i was doing...and no, it was not a bootie call cause she was out of town. Is she falling fo me....i dont know, its weird, it scares me, and i dont want to hurt her feelings....

2006-10-12 14:58:52 · 6 answers · asked by Dan 1 in Singles & Dating

because it feels like I am the one always calling after two days, here lately I have been getting mad about it. but after we talk and then see each other he is all into me and says lots of great stuff and then for whatever reason he like doesn't call. Even after asking me to lunch he just didn't call back. Its like I am dating two different people one day one way and then weird. I can't figure him out. In the beginning it was an everyday and every weekend thing and now its just not. I don't think I am gonna call this time. do I just need to give up?

2006-10-12 14:58:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so I was out hanging out with friends and she was at home hanging out with one of her best friends. So thinking nothing of it I thought they would be doing chick stuff watching movies and talking about guys. Anyway she calls me around 6 to tell me that she and her friend( her friend is bi) did stuff and she was happy about it and I asked how far did they get and she told me 3rd base and she liked it and hoped I was turned on by it. The odd thing was I wasnt it pissed me off so bad she did that. Is it wrong of me to be mad at her?

2006-10-12 14:58:42 · 5 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

She is 23 and a single mother. She suffers from moderate Bipolar Disorder which causes her to act very impulsively. She's smart, has a great job, is sweet-natured, and is absolutely beautiful.

She could "have any man she wants" (sorry if that sounds offensive). But for some reason she keeps going with guys who abuse her, or drink heavily, or smother her with jealousy. Our brothers and parents can't do anything about this, except possibly offer her advice she might listen to.

So does anyone have any of that much-needed advice?

2006-10-12 14:56:51 · 17 answers · asked by Rapunzel XVIII 5 in Family

I like this girl in my class and i like her but im shy to tell her i like her she talks to me and i knew her for 2 years on the first day i saw her i like her so much!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-12 14:56:43 · 16 answers · asked by Francisco R 1 in Friends

2006-10-12 14:56:01 · 9 answers · asked by dudette 3 in Friends

2006-10-12 14:55:21 · 35 answers · asked by fighting 40s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean i wanna break up with him but i also wanna stay with him!! idk i juss need a really sweet person's advice.

2006-10-12 14:55:10 · 9 answers · asked by chris 1 in Singles & Dating

everyone i know like friends and family tells me that his want 2 go back out w/ me is it true? wat should i do?

2006-10-12 14:54:58 · 4 answers · asked by cookielicious 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 14:54:42 · 4 answers · asked by John R 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that sometimes when a guy is asking a girl out, going out on the date, etc, it seems like the girl will let the guy totally screw up and not say anything? Or if the guy asks the girl for what she would like to do, she just says whatever, then lets the poor schmoe plan out an entire date, which the girl may hate and say nothing, and let him just absolutely blow it, and then never see him again?
I think I understand why some (seems like all) of you ladies do this to guys, but I want to hear it from your perspective. I want the inside skinny from ya'll. 10 points to the girl who goes the furthest in pulling back the veil on a woman's mind.

2006-10-12 14:54:39 · 14 answers · asked by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 in Singles & Dating

so i went over to my friends house and then she said she was going to to go out side.i said ok im going to delete my myspace so you go so she did.after a while i went to see where she was.i found her at the park and she was standing there hanging out with him.i got really upset and left.im not mad shes hanging out with him but its the SECOND time she lied to me.do i have a right to be mad or am i over reacting?

2006-10-12 14:54:07 · 7 answers · asked by volleyball0993 2 in Friends

2006-10-12 14:53:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is that okay to use alcholic lotion for my age?

2006-10-12 14:53:38 · 4 answers · asked by korean_girl101 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is actually several questions. .. . . No racist comments, this is not intended to be a racist question, If you make racist remarks I will report you. I would appreciate serious answers only please.

1. Why do you see so many white girls dating black guys?

2. Why do most mixed couples usually live in government housing?

3. Why don't as many white men date black girls?

4. Why does it almost never work out with white women and black men?

5. Why do white women who like black men, almost never choose upper class black me. . . why do they almost always choose the "thug" type?

2006-10-12 14:52:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm really feeling drawn to this guy in a lustful way. The thing is though that I am not physically attracted to him. He's the opposite of everything I usually like when it comes to looks on a man! And yet everytime our eyes meet there is this huge electricity between us. I'm not attracted and yet I am being sucked in....What is wrong with me?

2006-10-12 14:52:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she bought me stuff to keep intouch with her, and now I have not herd from her for about a week. after she bought these things for me we would constantly talk or keep in touch, now nothing I am afraid that she's left again. I am hurting pretty bad and I was afraid of this happening. how would you deal with this?

2006-10-12 14:51:33 · 7 answers · asked by Lucky Lady 1 in Family

My boyfriend of over a year has lately been drinking alot, form what I know. He tells me when he is going to hang at his bestfriends house and hang out, no problem with that. but it seems as though they just drink all the time. This week he drank on sun. night, mon. night, tuesday night, wednesday night, and he will be drinking saturday night again he said. I brought up my concern for him and said hes not drinking alot and hes young, and hes not doing it in the morning and every second like an acholic would. i dont know, I feel as though hes drinking alot, and I told him I care . He denies it, what do you guys think, this wasnt just this week either it happens perriodically like they drink every fri. night and now its increasing to everyday of the week it seems. And he isnt abusive when he drinks, which doesn make it better, i just dont want it to turn out of hand. help, what should I say and do. Thanks.

2006-10-12 14:51:29 · 11 answers · asked by old 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 14:51:08 · 10 answers · asked by Helloyou 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ive known this girl for 3 years and we have been goin out for 3 months and she is all i can think about is her. i just want to be with her all the time even if its just to watch T.V. or somethin. i love her with all my heart and sometimes i feel embarrased that i want to hold her hand.... is that weird or am is it just all in my head??? plz help.

2006-10-12 14:50:51 · 11 answers · asked by Micah B 1 in Singles & Dating

please i will like know why man forget his make,
why did man not want to know the will of his creator,but his only will he want tknow and fellow,
fell free to give you asnwer,

2006-10-12 14:50:46 · 5 answers · asked by yahman m 1 in Family

2006-10-12 14:49:29 · 6 answers · asked by shay 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it that they only want what they cant have? And once they know they can have you if they want you. They're not interested.

2006-10-12 14:48:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm dating my best friend. My parents know we're really close, but they don't know we're dating. We have been for almost five months, we're basically engaged [I just have to get down on one knee, but it's decided], and we're going to start a family.

She's not quite legal yet and I am. That's the problem.

I really want to tell my mom and stepdad because I REALLY want my mom to help me pick out the engagement ring.

I just don't know how.

[I don't have to come out to them or anything. They already know about that.]

2006-10-12 14:48:45 · 17 answers · asked by drunkon80 2 in Family

My friends company bought out my company. He has just been fired but I retained my job. I knew he and his coworkers were going to loose their job because they were union and my shop isn't. I knew 3 days before that they were going to bust the union. I was told not to say anything or my job would be in jepardy. I have my own family to provide for but in my occupation I could get another job in a second. Am I a cad for keeping my mouth shut? or does self preservation come into play here. I quit my friends company to work at this company which is in the same business. I quit because of the manager. This manager will now be managing my shop and I don't know if I will stay here or not. There is a chance that if I quit my friend could get a job at my shop. What should I do?

2006-10-12 14:48:06 · 7 answers · asked by noobienoob2000 4 in Friends

....sleep with your best friend's boyfriend/girlfriend ...if you knew for sure they would NEVER find out?

2006-10-12 14:47:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships