ok so i met this guy and one of mny best friends likes him too, we both know eachother like him, but we dont know what we should do, since we don't want to ruin our friendship. i went out with him before, but only for a weekend, so we never even saw eachother or spent time with eachother, so i want to go out with him again. he still ikes me and thinks im hot, he just dumped me because we didnt know eachother good enough yet. but now we do. but my best friend really likes him, ALOT! but no body knows if he likes her. i dont think he likes her like that, but he thinks im hot and likes me. he hasnt asked me out yet but last friday we held hands, and we are going to see eachother tomarrow, and my friend won't be there. what should i do.
p.s. my friend doesn't care if i go out with him again, because she wants me to be happy... but i would hate it if she hooked up ith him, and she knows it... we share everything together.
2006-10-12 14:58:52 · 13 answers · asked by snickelfritz 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Both of you dump the guy and save the friendship. A good friend is hard to find. Guys come and go, but I wouldn't jeopardize a friendship for one guy. There will always be another guy, probably one even better.
2006-10-12 15:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha don't worry..one time me and two of my friends liked the same guy for the longest time. Eventually, one person stopped liking him, and then the next would stop liking him a little after. Chances are none of you will go out with him, but its fun to talk about how cute the same guy is :)
2006-10-12 15:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by Sonya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i was in your position, i would just forget about the guy... my friends are soo important to me.. i would literally take a bullet for them... and if your friend likes him as much as you say, then she's gonna care if you go out with him, even if she says she won't. she sounds like a pretty good friend to tell you to go out with him because she wants you to be happy, so maybe you should be a good friend back and not get involved with him... but that's just me... good luck.
2006-10-12 15:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by bigrac15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, no ones married or engaged - so "all is fair in love and war"... fair game... let the chips fall where they do. Neither of you have control over this - and you know - if one of you date him - the other may find someone even better..... you know the song "Unanswered Prayers"..... sometimes life's even better when you DON'T get what you wished for.
2006-10-12 15:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by longhats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get this boy lower back along with his ex and then he would be happy and there wont be sick-will between you and your chum. Or, detect a clean boy and enable your chum have the boy she likes. Or dont detect a boy and be beneficiant to your chum and enable her have the boy--she'd owe you huge time, you need to earnings from that. or you are able to enable this by utilising come between you and your chum and characteristic it end the relationship between you 2. or you are able to in simple terms recover from it and not care. all of those are opportunities--think of it over and take your %. on which you opt for. Btw, it quite is way relax which you call her your mate--thats in simple terms not a be conscious we use here in california. we actually oughtta, its cool.
2016-11-28 02:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAn, be her friend, give her ago, but take him back the next day for keeps. He likes you, so get on with life
2006-10-12 15:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this probably won't resolve the dilemma for you, but remember that friends come and go, but enemies are for life.
2006-10-12 15:01:58 · answer #7 · answered by open4one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you try to give your friend a chance with him because thats what friends do, also, you might have a chance with him if you wanted so GO GET HIM!!!
2006-10-12 15:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by Gilbert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
become bi and ask him out for the 2 of u to see what he says
2006-10-12 15:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i doubt she doesnt care...if you both like him alot....its gonna put allottta tension between your relationship with her....dont pick a guy over your best friend....guys come and go trust me
hoes before bros thats my motto
2006-10-12 15:03:07 · answer #10 · answered by ashla145 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋