I told him i would give him $20 to buy pot but then i didnt because he told me to "stop being ******* annoying" when we were in public. so he started hitting walls and yelling that I was a f*cking b*tch and even tried taking my purse. He started saying that I was greedy and stuff. is this normal for a 19 year old guy?
2006-10-12 14:59:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No darlin, it's not. You need to move on. I'm sure you wouldn't accept that type of behavior from one of your girlfriends or a family member, so don't take it from him. You sound young and have your whole life ahead of you, so take a look into going to school, starting a business, etc and only be around people who are interested in moving upward and onward and including you in that movement. Also, you only want to be with someone who is interested in seeing you be the best you can be. He doesn't sound like he's trying to be the best he can be right now.
LET IT GO!!!
2006-10-12 15:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by msjuliet2005 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No honey, it's really not. That's verbal abuse, it's not ok! It's not normal. I have also been in a very similar situation, been with an angry man, maybe from smoking pot. You don't deserve that at all.
Partners are meant to encourage you not put you down, yell at you etc. You need to kick him to the curb, find a man who respects you, & wouldn't even think of treating you that way. If you stay, it'll just get worse because he'll think it's ok to do that stuff. Please be true to yourself, don't put yourself through that, that's not how love is supposed to be. If you want to send me an email you can if that would help. Good luck.
2006-10-12 15:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal behaviour for a drug addict. It will escalate into him hitting you if you DO NOT get out now! Why in the world would you be giving him money for pot? Don't you have anything else you need to spend that money on, hunny go get your hair or your nails done before wasting your money on the funny stuff!
2006-10-12 15:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by babydoll121070 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
l can see why he would be angry you did say you would give him $20.plus taking pot can to that to a person. You sound like you are in love and love is blind .By giving him money you are only hurting him.You probably are not annoying and greedy and all that stuff you are just in love ps Try loving yourself first
2006-10-12 15:40:46 · answer #4 · answered by sunflowercook 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not i would buy a stun gun and when he starts throwing a temper tantrum like that hit him with it and beat his *** the call the cops on him and have him arrested usally will work better if u have a black eye but you are i n one dangerous situation get out while your still alive good luck and stay safe
2006-10-12 15:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by luis_11211 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO!
This is not normal for a boy to do. As he grows this will only get worse! He is intimidating now but this kid is only 19!
You do not need this.....Move on, there are better out there. This kid has a lot of growing up to do.
2006-10-12 15:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that is Faarr from it. He shouldnt treat you like that and REALLY shouldnt even except money from you. He should be the one buying stuff for you and if anything you should be the one being rude to him. I'd say dump him.
2006-10-12 15:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by KelCee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know that is not normal,get away from him be for you get hurt,is is no good and you will never get anywhere with him or have a decent life of any kind.
2006-10-12 15:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Abuse is abuse. nevertheless i know this sounds contrite, he will do it often. The cycle of an abuser is they benefit your faith and believe, sometimes some distance previous what you're used to. whilst they know which you're reeled in, they could initiate the downward technique of stripping you down so as which you're afraid to bypass away, or at a loss for words of your innocence interior the placement. This technique could lead to actual abuse. while you're then hospitalized, or have left, or have been compelled to bypass away, or the abuser is frightened that they could lose you, they start the technique of gaining your believe lower back. (The plant existence, presents, astonishing words faze.) even though it quite is going to start up yet lower back, in lots of cases swifter than the time in the past. in lots of cases, whilst an abuser is blaming the different for cheating, it quite is often because of the fact the abuser is doing the cheating and is projecting it directly to the abused. i don't know if this helps any, yet get out and stay out of it. no count what else you need to face in existence, something is greater effectual than dieing on a daily basis in that existence.
2016-11-28 02:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's only 19? What a crappy way to start out. Sad.
2006-10-12 15:05:21 · answer #10 · answered by LadiesMan74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋