2006-10-12 14:55:21 · 35 answers · asked by fighting 40s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No! you have to live with the guilt for the rest of your life. Why would you want to do that and betray your partner?
2006-10-12 14:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, I can't fathom letting another man touch me. There's no way in the world I would do anything to hurt my husband. If things are so good and you are happy, then why ruin it with cheating? My husband and I have been together 6 years and I couldn't imagine being with anyone else, even after he's gone. I can't imagine anyone else trying to "play" daddy to our 2 son's. Just not gonna happen. Who cares if you are 100% sure you won't get caught, it's still embedded into your brain and the guilt would tear me apart. I like looking at myself in the morning and liking who I am.
2006-10-12 15:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see alot of NO'S, but how many of the NO's are actually true.
If you are truthful, then I support you. If you have cheated before, then I would not answer this.
I am not a saint, and I have done cheated before. Am I in a happy relationship? NO
I will say this much; if you are happy why do you want to cheat?
If you cheat on him or her once, 90% chance you will do it again.
I have been there, done that. Was it right? NO
2006-10-12 16:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No cheating hurts if you are happy why would you want to cheat. If you get all that you need at home i am confused. Sounds like to me it is a game for you if you feel that way. Cheating hurts both in the end. All of this holds true if you are married. If not weel to me it is not cheating.
2006-10-12 14:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The words "in a happy relationship" immediately create a situation where there is no desire to cheat. It's called love. If you have never experienced it, I'm sorry. But yes, that is the truth. And it does happen to men too... though maybe not to you. =P
2006-10-12 15:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Cheating destroys the relationship. If you do that, then you have to decide whether to tell your partner or not... or have that dirty secret between the two of you.
Conversely.... a relationship that has total trust, and no bad things to forgive, just a peaceful and passionate love between two people.... that's a rare treasure which should not be marred in any way.
I♥♫→mia☼☺†
2006-10-12 15:01:22 · answer #6 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I'm a stickler for fidelity and loyalty to the person you're with; and, anyway, if it was a happy relationship.. lol what would be the sense of cheating?
If it was an unhappy one, I'd just leave, instead of cheat.
2006-10-12 14:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are in a happy relationship than why would you even think of cheating in the first place? something is not right in the relationship for you to be thinking of cheating. i would never cheat even if i was in a unhappy relationship. i would end the relationship first.
2006-10-12 15:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't that you wouldn't get caught, it is living with the decision guilt free after the fact. A lot can be said for the virtues of personal integrity. Lots of people have opportunities to stray, many, if not most, do not because they expect more from themselves.
2006-10-12 15:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because you would be cheating yourself. From what you say? From a truthful and honest relationship. You will know and that's all that will tear the 2 of you apart. Why do that to yourself? I wouldn't. I couldn't. I love my husband too much to cheat on him.
2006-10-12 15:22:41 · answer #10 · answered by mothergoose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. I don't even want to think of being around another man in that way. Even if I could somehow go through with it, and didn't feel guilty, it wouldn't be gratifying since I'd be wishing I were with my husband the whole time.
2006-10-12 14:59:52 · answer #11 · answered by ACC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋